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well what about the 'fear of not getting a invite again'? you would have that fear if you get a invite. you would think oh! now i got a invite if i miss this chance i won't get another! then there is fear :)
so according to your own argument you would violate your principals and take the invite then?
Lets examine what fear is...
According to Oxford Advanced Learners Compass, fear is the bad feeling that you have when you are in danger, when sth bad might happen, or when a particular thing frightens you. Now comes my argument:
Am i in Danger right now without an invite? Well, maybe, yeah but not because of not having an invite. According to you, i will have fear and violate my principals when i got an invite, because i will have the fear of not having another chance to get into sct. Now, i dont have invites, i have no such preoccupations like missing this last chance or whatever. Even if, i get the invite, interpretations of this situations are up to me... If i care about an invite, you are right, i might take the invite because this might be the last chance... But if i dont care, whether i have an invite or not, i will definitely not worry about such tiny worries. So in short, it might be better to say that, people act against their principals when they fear that they will lose smt that they really care about...But, even if all those arguments that we have talked, it would be such a stupity to be a member of sct, because i will be labeled as a complete liar aint it? Also there is this fear, which one is more suppressing ? i think this is up to me, i cant risk my credibility for the sake of one invite, would you? this fear of losing your credibility and possibly your friends are much higher than the missing your last ticket to the best site in the internet called sct.
In short, all i am saying, people are moved by fears to act in a certain way. But this doesnt mean that they will act against their principals when they even feel fear. There is the issue of level of fear... Which fear is much higher? my credibility or an invite? this is for me to decide... Another point is, fear isnt the only thing that cause you to act in a certain way, as i said there are other things that affect your decisions, Another one would be care or luv. It will be nostalgic but think about it, if there is an old woman whose health is very very bad and she is about to die, what would you tell him? i would tell the lie to make her feel better...In sct case, i lied because i cared about sct that time, but now, i dont care a bit, so even if i get the invite, i wont be moved by the fear of losing this last chance... because there are better sites than sct, and i dont care about sct anymore, this is why, i wont have any fear of losing the invite at all...
ps:if we are gonna keep this up, can we do it another time, another place? cuz i am watching my favourite show now :) but i really appreciate your arguments... this is the best thing to have i guess :) Also greek is awesome!!!!
damn u r so funny :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Rumblin
i really need help with smt, i know it is tough policy to reinstate a previous member, but i got my rapidshare account that i gave the trader back, now i got it, is it possible for him to get his account back? i am not asking for me, asking for him, if you say no, just say it so that i will give him one month for the damage i caused, if staff can answer, will be appreciated
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Originally Posted by bilkenter
oh . my . . .. god . .. . . .. . . . .
Lollercaust.
what is this about guyz? if u dont believe me i will post the convo between us... i am merely asking about his account, i dont care about getting account myself, so if you wont contribute, dont piss me off pls, i got my rapid account back because of the claims that the account cheated... therefore, i want either confirmation of that claim or the account back to the original owner, depending on answer, i will give him smt to cover the damage i caused...
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Originally Posted by bilkenter
yes please do i think it will clear things up for us... tx
ok do you want the full copy or just the relevant parts to what i said? meaning do you want the parts where the trade actually occured and so forth or the part where i changed the rapidshare details...
since there is no response here you go included the parts we talked about today... sorry for the rpd though if you want i can upload it to anyother place
here for all eyes to see if u need it, can provide html record tooCode:http://rapidshare.com/files/125250736/New_Text_Document__4_.txt
Nobody gives a shit.