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Originally Posted by megan343

Yeah I've pretty much resigned myself to the fact that I'm not overly attractive. I got over it years ago.

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Yeah but perhaps you're wrong.

Beauty has nothing to do with outward appearance.

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Originally Posted by megan343

Beauty has nothing to do with outward appearance.

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Exactly!

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Originally Posted by megan343

Yeah I've pretty much resigned myself to the fact that I'm not overly attractive. I got over it years ago.

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really? :blink:

I suggest you buy a new mirror then

It all comes down to your perception. If you take cues for people around you then you're getting a distorted view. Social ritual and behavior distort what people really think. The bulk of society is hiding behind social masks in just about every situaltion.

Put the bong down VB :o

No bong here.

Sure?

A person is attractive when he/she feels they are inside. I've seen physically lovely women who are not attractive because of their personality, and physically "flawed" women who are beautiful because of who they are. Attractiveness is not the shape of the face, or how thin your ankes are, its about the whole package, body, soul, mind, personality, and most of all, how comfortable you are in your own skin.

I'm not the most "traditionally" appealing woman on earth, I'm not stick thin, and I no longer want to be because I now like myself, am comfortable with myself and am NEVER short of male attention. Hips and tits are a good thing. I still have bad days when I look in the mirror and say ughh, but on those days I try and focus on why I feel like that, maybe I'm stressed or something, and not on what it is I am feeling, kinda bypassing the self loathing and finding out the reasons behind it.

Megan, you hear people telling you you are lovely but you don't believe it, probably because you are used to feeling that way. Give yourself a break chick, imagine all the wasted energy thats gone into the worrying and the self-hatred. Try and do things that make you happy and the appearance becomes less and less important to you, until one day you accept who you are, in your own skin, in the one body you are ever going to have, and are happy with it. PM me and have a chat sometime lovey.

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Beauty has nothing to do with outward appearance.

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That's cow pucky.

There's inward beauty and outward beauty.

If I didn't like the way a woman looked I might not ever talk to her. I mean it's possible but not likely.

Outward beauty, in most cases, draws a person near to either see their beauty, their shittyness (or simply be blinded by the beauty).

I've never stayed awhile with a shitty good-looking woman. She would only be good for one thing. :naughty:

I thought Megan looked pretty fucking hawt in those pics she posted - particularly the front on one of her and her friend.

I've got great taste, so it must be true.

I totally understand that she may not feel that way and whatever we say won't make much difference to her self perception - I had a bulimic girlfriend and then she was just a friend for many years.

However, I don't reckon saying it can hurt and who knows, she might yet post those other pics that we were threatened with :D

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Originally Posted by megan343

Beauty has nothing to do with outward appearance.

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That's cow pucky.



If I didn't like the way a woman looked I might not ever talk to her. I mean it's possible but not likely.
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Exactly how shallow are you? You are basically saying you wouldnt talk to people whom you don't find physically attractive?

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That's cow pucky.



If I didn't like the way a woman looked I might not ever talk to her. I mean it's possible but not likely.
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Exactly how shallow are you? You are basically saying you wouldnt talk to people whom you don't find physically attractive?

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Remember the film Shallow Hal? :unsure:

Are'nt you suppose to like people for who they are. :unsure:

Frankly I think megan's heard everything positive that folks are telling her on here before.

The anorexics I've seen, did look good and everyone told them that.

I think they should get over themselves get logical about what looks good.

I actually admire those fat woman that still take their fat ass to the club with their head held up high.

Dey fat dan a muhfucka and dey livin' it up.

yeh I think you've got it Dan. Is it ALL ugly people you refuse to talk to Busyman, or just the really repellant ones? What happens if you HAVE to talk to an ugly woman, she's your boss or something. I know, I know.. Women Boss???

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That's cow pucky.



If I didn't like the way a woman looked I might not ever talk to her. I mean it's possible but not likely.
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Exactly how shallow are you? You are basically saying you wouldnt talk to people whom you don't find physically attractive?

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Not simply talk to them silly. Go up and talk to them.

Physical attractive is the first thing that draws me. It is otherwise possible in other cases. The woman may come up to me....I may work with her, etc.

Would I go up to a woman to talk to rap to her is was unattractive? Fuck no!!! It's goes against the word 'attractive'.

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I think they should get over themselves get logical about what looks good.

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Yup, you're still an idiot today too.

Those folk who feel compelled to wash their hands 36 times before they eat should get logical about that too, ffs - once is enough.

Tourette suffers just just stfu, period. Gawd, people with mental disorders do some really strange stuff.

Who knew :huh:

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yeh I think you've got it Dan. Is it ALL ugly people you refuse to talk to Busyman, or just the really repellant ones? What happens if you HAVE to talk to an ugly woman, she's your boss or something. I know, I know.. Women Boss???

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I missed yer post...see above. :ermm:

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I think they should get over themselves get logical about what looks good.

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Yup, you're still an idiot today too.

Those folk who feel compelled to wash their hands 36 times before they eat should get logical about that too, ffs - once is enough.

Tourette suffers just just stfu, period. Gawd, people with mental disorders do some really strange stuff.

Who knew :huh:

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I knew you'd find your spot at some point. Wtf has my shadow been?

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Yup, you're still an idiot today too.

Those folk who feel compelled to wash their hands 36 times before they eat should get logical about that too, ffs - once is enough.

Tourette suffers just just stfu, period. Gawd, people with mental disorders do some really strange stuff.

Who knew :huh:

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I knew you'd find your spot at some point. Wtf has my shadow been?

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Good point. Whoa, you've really got me there.

I stand, like, totally corrected.

So you wouldn't chat up an ugly bird is what you are saying? If she didnt fit your bill as attractive you wouldnt bother? What about if she was perfect in every other way? Have you ever fancied anyone without really knowing why because physically they ewre no t your usual type? Did it disturb you?

Just curious

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So you wouldn't chat up an ugly bird is what you are saying? If she didnt fit your bill as attractive you wouldnt bother? What about if she was perfect in every other way? Have you ever fancied anyone without really knowing why because physically they ewre no t your usual type? Did it disturb you?

Just curious

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You really think Busy's got that much experience with women :lol:

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So you wouldn't chat up an ugly bird is what you are saying? If she didnt fit your bill as attractive you wouldnt bother? What about if she was perfect in every other way? Have you ever fancied anyone without really knowing why because physically they ewre no t your usual type? Did it disturb you?

Just curious

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You really think Busy's got that much experience with women :lol:

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:lol: :lol:
I should've thought! Bet he runs and hides if a fit lass talks to him in RL!

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So you wouldn't chat up an ugly bird is what you are saying? If she didnt fit your bill as attractive you wouldnt bother? What about if she was perfect in every other way? Have you ever fancied anyone without really knowing why because physically they ewre no t your usual type? Did it disturb you?

Just curious

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I have chatted up and ugly bird and joked around. I'm not a fake bastard. There are many situations where that can happen.

I just wasn't attracted (hence the word) to them and wasn't interested in anything more due to that.

This is quite natural.

If I'm walking down the street and a good looking woman walks by, I may go up and talk to her. ATTRACTION.

I wouldn't do it with someone I considered an ugly bird though. :ermm:

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You really think Busy's got that much experience with women :lol:

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:lol: :lol:
I should've thought! Bet he runs and hides if a fit lass talks to him in RL!

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Damn if she doesn't run after to catch me though. :naughty:

Story of my life. :snooty:

What an interesting thread. Can I just add a couple of small points, for what they are worth.

People who mock those with mental disorders should be thorougly ashamed of themselves. Can I suggest you have a look at this website and give the contents a wee scan Royal College of Psychiatrists , if you can't be arsed doing that then please read this paragraph

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What can society do?

We can strive better to understand the distress that underlies and drives these disorders. We can provide access to such information and develop health promotion campaigns aimed at teenagers and young people. Information on how to cope with feelings and fears about growth or about being too fat is useful. We can offer more support in secondary schools and user-friendly services for troubled teenagers.

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Tho' I would ask that you take just 2 or 3 minutes to quickly scan the link.

Busy, we don't often agree, fair enough, but you are seldom this obtuse or despicably offensive. I've said this to others and I'll say it to you, you have been an absolute dickhead here. Either you mean what you are saying, or you are doing it for effect, either way you are being a real dickhead.

Lastly, as others have said better than I can. Even if you chaps don't believe the root of this condition (which the medical profession seems to have agreed) then surely you can show some compassion for other people who are obviously trying to deal with their own personal demons. Whatever they are to you, they are demons to the people they haunt.

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What an interesting thread. Can I just add a couple of small points, for what they are worth.

People who mock those with mental disorders should be thorougly ashamed of themselves. Can I suggest you have a look at this website and give the contents a wee scan Royal College of Psychiatrists , if you can't be arsed doing that then please read this paragraph

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What can society do?

We can strive better to understand the distress that underlies and drives these disorders. We can provide access to such information and develop health promotion campaigns aimed at teenagers and young people. Information on how to cope with feelings and fears about growth or about being too fat is useful. We can offer more support in secondary schools and user-friendly services for troubled teenagers.

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Tho' I would ask that you take just 2 or 3 minutes to quickly scan the link.

Busy, we don't often agree, fair enough, but you are seldom this obtuse or despicably offensive. I've said this to others and I'll say it to you, you have been an absolute dickhead here. Either you mean what you are saying, or you are doing it for effect, either way you are being a real dickhead.

Lastly, as others have said better than I can. Even if you chaps don't believe the root of this condition (which the medical profession seems to have agreed) then surely you can show some compassion for other people who are obviously trying to deal with their own personal demons. Whatever they are to you, they are demons to the people they haunt.

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The topic was that forum. Those observed there are stupid to me.
We are looking from the outside mind you. They seem to be doing fine.

Sorry but coming from where I'm from, stressing about something so trivial is trivial. I equate it to a rich fuck that lost their money and has to actually deal with life. Fucking deal and STFU. Disorder indeed. Maybe someone should stop not coddling these folk. Stupid culture based gender based bullshit disorder...along with a culture that permeates the mostly white world to be skinny. Maybe that's the real culprit.

I empower everyone (mostly men) to fix it. Get yourself a thick woman.

Contender for the most utterly, totally, completely ridiculous post in the entire, complete, unadulterated history of the interweb. Ever.

Honestly, I don't think even Roget would have enough adjectives.

Busy,

If you read my link you will see that cultural influences are seen as part of the problem, as are many other things, including genetics, trauma etc. Whatever, it is a recognised mental health problem, whatever you think the cause is. It is real and the people are suffering, no matter the source.

The discussion went way beyond the original topic of that forum, which is when you started to post things about people with the disorder, rather than making posts about the forum in question. When you started calling them fucking idiots and such-like

Do me a favour, at least read (or even scan) the link and consider what it has to say.

I support your right to hold your opinions and to express them. However I think you would do yourself greater credit if you were to accept that you may not know everything about the subject, that your opinion may be based on ignorance and that you may change it (at least partially) given further evidence to factor in.

No matter how you have portrayed yourself here you are a clever chap. Do the decent thing and at least read what others have to say. It'll take you 5 minutes. You know it makes sense

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Contender for the most utterly, totally, completely ridiculous post in the entire, complete, unadulterated history of the interweb. Ever.

Honestly, I don't think even Roget would have enough adjectives.

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Well it's what I think, so what's the harm in me posting it. I don't think I offended anyone, other than Busyman and he deserved it.

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Originally Posted by JPaul

Busy,

If you read my link you will see that cultural influences are seen as part of the problem, as are many other things, including genetics, trauma etc. Whatever, it is a recognised mental health problem, whatever you think the cause is. It is real and the people are suffering, no matter the source.

The discussion went way beyond the original topic of that forum, which is when you started to post things about people with the disorder, rather than making posts about the forum in question. When you started calling them fucking idiots and such-like

Do me a favour, at least read (or even scan) the link and consider what it has to say.

I support your right to hold your opinions and to express them. However I think you would do yourself greater credit if you were to accept that you may not know everything about the subject, that your opinion may be based on ignorance and that you may change it (at least partially) given further evidence to factor in.

No matter how you have portrayed yourself here you are a clever chap. Do the decent thing and at least read what others have to say. It'll take you 5 minutes. You know it makes sense

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Ok.

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Originally Posted by Busyman

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Originally Posted by JPaul

Busy,

If you read my link you will see that cultural influences are seen as part of the problem, as are many other things, including genetics, trauma etc. Whatever, it is a recognised mental health problem, whatever you think the cause is. It is real and the people are suffering, no matter the source.

The discussion went way beyond the original topic of that forum, which is when you started to post things about people with the disorder, rather than making posts about the forum in question. When you started calling them fucking idiots and such-like

Do me a favour, at least read (or even scan) the link and consider what it has to say.

I support your right to hold your opinions and to express them. However I think you would do yourself greater credit if you were to accept that you may not know everything about the subject, that your opinion may be based on ignorance and that you may change it (at least partially) given further evidence to factor in.

No matter how you have portrayed yourself here you are a clever chap. Do the decent thing and at least read what others have to say. It'll take you 5 minutes. You know it makes sense

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Ok.

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Wow. One big step.

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Originally Posted by JPaul

Busy,

If you read my link you will see that cultural influences are seen as part of the problem, as are many other things, including genetics, trauma etc. Whatever, it is a recognised mental health problem, whatever you think the cause is. It is real and the people are suffering, no matter the source.

The discussion went way beyond the original topic of that forum, which is when you started to post things about people with the disorder, rather than making posts about the forum in question. When you started calling them fucking idiots and such-like

Do me a favour, at least read (or even scan) the link and consider what it has to say.

I support your right to hold your opinions and to express them. However I think you would do yourself greater credit if you were to accept that you may not know everything about the subject, that your opinion may be based on ignorance and that you may change it (at least partially) given further evidence to factor in.

No matter how you have portrayed yourself here you are a clever chap. Do the decent thing and at least read what others have to say. It'll take you 5 minutes. You know it makes sense

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Ok.

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Cheers Mate, it's all anyone can ask ;)

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Ok.

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Cheers Mate, it's all anyone can ask ;)

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No prob, JP. ;)

I won't spoil it :happy:

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What an interesting thread. Can I just add a couple of small points, for what they are worth.

People who mock those with mental disorders should be thorougly ashamed of themselves. Can I suggest you have a look at this website and give the contents a wee scan Royal College of Psychiatrists , if you can't be arsed doing that then please read this paragraph



Tho' I would ask that you take just 2 or 3 minutes to quickly scan the link.

Busy, we don't often agree, fair enough, but you are seldom this obtuse or despicably offensive. I've said this to others and I'll say it to you, you have been an absolute dickhead here. Either you mean what you are saying, or you are doing it for effect, either way you are being a real dickhead.

Lastly, as others have said better than I can. Even if you chaps don't believe the root of this condition (which the medical profession seems to have agreed) then surely you can show some compassion for other people who are obviously trying to deal with their own personal demons. Whatever they are to you, they are demons to the people they haunt.

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The topic was that forum. Those observed there are stupid to me.
We are looking from the outside mind you. They seem to be doing fine.

Sorry but coming from where I'm from, stressing about something so trivial is trivial. I equate it to a rich fuck that lost their money and has to actually deal with life. Fucking deal and STFU. Disorder indeed. Maybe someone should stop not coddling these folk. Stupid culture based gender based bullshit disorder...along with a culture that permeates the mostly white world to be skinny. Maybe that's the real culprit.

I empower everyone (mostly men) to fix it. Get yourself a thick woman.

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Because Thick Women can't see through your shallow, uncompassionate, arrogant, singleminded, inflexible, and truly pitiable soul?

Babe. Learn to reason, listen, and think. It might help.

You yourself told me you had suffered from COE and depression to a certain extent. You should therefore understand that sometimes you can't pick yourself up without serious hard work and medical attention. In the midst of suffering sometimes its just too hard to do so. You really can't empathise past your own views and experience can you?

If you only deal with Thick Women, as you put it, you'll never have a truly rewarding relationship. Putting yourself in a position of superiority will mean you are never challenged, won't grow, and will stay the small-minded self-obsessed person you are. :01:

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It has become that because of a lack of moderation. And yes support sometimes means letting people make thier own mistakes but being there for them when they realise.

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the site as a whole seem to encourage it
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Originally Posted by megan343

Busyman I posted those pictures because all the girls i posted have/had eating disorders but are still considered some of the sexiest women alive.

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here again is your fucked up view on the world
sorry you're wrong

Oh am I now...I NEVER said I found those women attractive, but the majority of men find those women attractive...

Angelina Jolie-Brad Pitt....need I say more

muchspl3- You are a fucking moron for posting this in the first place. The fact that you either hang out at the vestibule or entensity says a lot about you. Go back to your fantasy world where you belong....isn't there some Worlds or Warcraft game that you should be playing somewhere? Or maybe you just need to go have a wank over a cartoon...