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Alrighty, then. Carry on.
Although: I have heard Cabalo is looking into taking action with your situation. If they deem you bannable then I'll miss you. I may have disagreed with pretty much everything you said, but you still entertained me, and seem like a nice enough fellow.
You know I thought I'd like Garth Sings ignoring me a lot more than I do.
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I feel cheated and betrayed. You picked Jacky to be your room-mate. Even though my relationship with her is amicable, I just don't feel comfortable with two scientists being in your life. I've therefore decided to stray far away.
I've decided to meet new people. I've decided to see new things. More importantly, I've also decided to come back one day. To come back as an experienced, weathered soul. To come back as an alpha male would to his tribe aeons ago, more resilient and wise than everyone who stayed within the confines of the village. I've decided to come back like Tupac risen from the dead, ready to be hailed as the greatest whoever lived; like our troops back from Iraq, heroes of children, mothers, and everyone who cares for them; like Lindsay Lohan with an imminent but sexy threat that she might go to rehab any moment, forcing people to hold on to her like a transient hope.
I've decided to come back and win you over from that woman's treacherous arms, one day, eye of the idol, one day.
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And you thought you were bored. You have no idea. :happy:
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I thought I'd spare you the embarrassment of highlighting your insanity.
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Don't get me wrong though she still isn't half bad looking for the three day old corpse of a fifty year old woman.
What she's like 25 and breathing ? Then ewwwwww.
Also you're insane and not in a good way.
Squeams has spoken (in the public eye at least) with nothing but respect for who Reject is. She didn't shoot down his claims that he's very honest, nor did she discredit his misunderstanding of people as a negative attribute, and she herself acknowledges he's a pacifist. Even though he posted a death threat in satire, I don't think anyone took it seriously, not in the least the parties involved, especially.
If everyone wants to get their panties up in a bunch, go for it. If everyone wants to be the authority on Reject's mental health, you're all privy to that honour. But please, don't make my equally valid opinion sound crazy simply because you disagree with it.
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I was just saying you and crazy boy could go get a room somewhere. You seem t be grooming him at the last minute... :idunno:Quote:
Originally Posted by Dave's Ring Hunter
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Yes, that kettle is properly known as a cast iron-American.
It's no surprise Chalice got fed up with you. Look at your track record:
Wife: check
Squeams: check
kids: probably
most of the site: check, check, check...
I temporarily took you off ignore to say goodbys. You are one truly confused little monkey, Dave.
Bored with your clinging to a former friend, and following her like a fucking psycho has got to end, Dave. Get a life.
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The sad truth is Reject has been banned or flounced from every single message board that I know of that he has frequented to any regular degree. The pattern is usually thus:
1) Reject is nice and friendly and everybody takes to him
2) Reject gets his knickers in a twist over some issue he has misunderstood
3) Reject goes completely OTT and alienates everyone
4) Self pity kicks in followed by obsessive demands for attention while he sorts through all the conflicting emotions in his head.
5) When everybody declines to enter into the dark, repetitive world of navel gazing he has created he becomes aggressive
6) Accuses people of lying/libelling him. At this stage the following may happen:
a) He may threaten board owners with some form of legal action, a form of attention seeking they can't ignore. If they're large enough scale or robust enough to call his bluff on this he will probably flounce from the board in a waft of acrimony or be banned
b) He will go straight to flouncing
7) He will attempt to rejoin the board under pseudonyms or as himself
8) Cycle repeats ad nauseum
To be honest I just got tired of his shit. The good times became drastically outweighed by the bad. I felt like I was an unpaid psychiatrist. His complete inability to have functional interpersonal relationships became my responsibility to help him through, and eventually when I failed to deliver the relationship I knew he wanted every conversation started with recriminations and accusations. I persevered with him for 5 years, but eventually, as the intervals between his petit mals became shorter he just emotionally drained me. I admitted defeat. I was the last person in his life to do so, and I was loathe to because I hate to give up on people, but the shutters just came down and there was nothing I could do about it.
I knew that the only way I could remove him from my life was to starve him of attention. To cut him off completely. To not let him intimidate me like he had everybody else we knew and to stay strong and stand up to him.
Bottom line is, he entertains everyone. This car crash entertains everyone. That's the only reason he's still here. You all have it in your power to ignore him, or at the very least his diatribes. Every escalation of his behaviour in real life has been a result of attention he's been given on this board.
Really, we don't need to involve the mods in this. If you want to help, ignore the poor behaviour, reward the good. It's not difficult.
That all seems in order, the list and paragraphs, though I feel step 1 is disputable in this case. Post #305 (yikes, makes one think there's a lot of concern over Darth's employment) probably could have capped the other thread which happens to have been dedicated to this issue. I haven't put reject on ignore, though I can't remember the last time I gave more than a glance to his whining diatribes. The guy really cares way too much about how people view him.
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You do realise that every bit of invective in that diatribe was about somebody else, not Squeamous ?
Next point you have said repeatedly you want to be left alone, and have also said you will stop posting. Man up and fuck off, problem solved.
Another thing you should understand clearly, the members of this section are by and large fairly mature, we have all had relationships go tits up, some of them very messily, yet not a single other member here is boohooing about their past. You have spent months here bawling your eyes out you big girl for fucks sake grow a pair !!!!!!!
We really honestly to a member do not give a flying fuck about how you have been changed, how you have been made into the man ? that you are now, and repeating the same thing over and over and over again will not change anyone's opinion, quite the opposite in fact.
I know you will be offended by this, and take it as a sleight against your dignity, but the purpose of this post is to make you look at yourself and how destructive this cycle is, it is not meant with malice, but as a wake up slap. You really need to take stock of who you are and what you are doing.
If Dave makes a stupid post that no one reads, he's still just as stupid. Fact.
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I don't want to confuse the issue by quoting the whole of your reply, the salient points are the two above.
The first quote deals with you bringing up your past with Squeamous and how it has changed you and made you into the bitter man that you are today. This is a constant theme in your posts, often one triggered by someone simply commenting that you seem bitter. You yourself keep on harping on about how you have been betrayed and lied to, guess what we all fucking have, and not a single one of us is here crying about it. That's boring, you repeating over and over and over again (I'm quite prepared to quote you if need be) is boring, we don't care, I personally have a problem with a middleaged man going on about how he has been betrayed and lied to. You must have led a very sheltered cotton wool life if this is the worst that has happened and the thing you can't get over.
The second point carries on from the first but you say so many have battered you around the head with the same old subject for months. Once again I am quite prepared to quote the many multiples of times you drag this subject up, or reference it, with the how you have been changed spiel. How do you think we feel, hearing the same thing over and over again? Guess what you were probably going to provoke a negative reaction on any internet forum going on about how you are a changed man because you have been lied to, people really don't want to hear that, so why are you surprised that people have reacted negatively? It was always going to happen, your very style of posting and your need to provoke guaranteed a reaction, yet you are shocked it happened ?
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So we are all in agreement here?
EDIT: I replied to your science thread before I saw Squeamous's reply, nor your "I have tried to bring up topics of discussion," post. MBM will be putting you on ignore like he said, and I don't think Jacky and I hold any malice towards you, so we'll be our usual foolish selves. I can't think of many other lounge regulars whose position isn't clear. I'll keep at the science thread, because it's a topic I love, even if it becomes derailed, stay active there if you truly want to avoid confrontation of this sort.
Take it upon yourself to ignore just as much of others as they would attempt to ignore of you. Mayhaps we can restore peace to these boards.