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I find it really annoying when it seems logical that the parents
of your lover should pay for the dinner at a restaurant
It's not that i make more than them, on the contrary, i find it humiliating at times. It is a tradition i have seen in my past 3 relationships, so i guess it is a norm.
Yes i have tried to pay, in the end i find other ways.
Do you have similar experience?
http://www.intl.pdx.edu/Images/Japan...-dinner_bg.jpg
Is that you on the left, looking like you just had a lobotomy?
:D
nah, but i sometimes feel lobotomized during their architorture discussions.(guaranteed)
father is an architect, mother is an urban planner,
just imagine the discussions.
now back to the original question...
editted
What is it you do yourself.
Seems that the eldest always tried to pay.
About a year ago when dating a different gal and out with her parents, I excused myself to the restroom. The real reason for sneaking off was to give my credit card to the waiter long before we finished eating. When they asked for the check, the receipt for the dinner was already billed and brought to me to sign. No debating. No hassle. :)
get a burd with rich parents, obviousement.
You're asian?
Are you asking me or telling me?
See, it's not a question, but just stick a curly wurly at the end. Appalling.
:sly: I'm telling you and asking 100%
Not a question?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr JP Fugley
he has to be either the old man or the man on the right then.
No!
No?
he's a she then?
who
guys,
1. the image is random google. if you want me to be azian, believe in it.
2. fugley see sig
3. All of you with burds, is it "normal" that the elders pay for dinner out?
4. free food never goes unappreciated.
However
I f i would pay i would choose a better place.
i believe
So you're not asian?
An internets artist. Cool.Quote:
Originally Posted by 100%
What does it matter, racist.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt
i was thinking the same thing, but then realized that it didn't matter
i only got one answer which befitted my urgent demand.
you guys need to be taken out to dinner.
Cheers, mate. I'll pay.Quote:
Originally Posted by 100%
@100%, I think your best strategy is to try and pay but let them win in the end. That way they don't think you're cheap, but they feel good for having paid for dinner thus giving you some brownie points. Now if you often go out to dinner with her parents then it might be a good idea to invite them out some time and make it clear the whole night is on you :)
And to answer the other part of your question, yes it is very common my in-laws always try to pay for everything :rolleyes:
It's tradition. Offer to pay and if they insist let them. If your feeling guilty about it either get over it or do something nice and unexpected that they would like.
What ? Like make a pass at her mother... well it'd be unexpected, and she may even think it was nice!
my question is who is the lover in the picture?
I don't understand the dilemma.
If someone offers to pay for something I agree straight away.
If they didn't want to, surely they wouldn't offer?
Right?
:huh:
Have you never heard of going Dutch.
We don't do that kinda thing in Belgium
Pervert
You're not in Belgium ... smelly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Skweeky
:o
I had a shower and a bath today :snooty:
lovewalrus says...enjoy ur bathtime :D
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I now have two people on my ignore list :D
Someone tell me when they stop posting gross spider pictures
wow don't be such a puss mate, I'm terrified of em too but pictures FFS.... :ghey:
Jetbath :naughty:Quote:
Originally Posted by Skweeky
Ideal time to take the pic that wood have been.