I mean..my girl is nuts. I've never met someone so insecure.. How do I make her less crazy.
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I mean..my girl is nuts. I've never met someone so insecure.. How do I make her less crazy.
The thing you've got to remember is that they're not female men. No way.
How old is she? It usually takes until we're about 30 to get really nuts. Have you tried getting yourself a younger one?
What is wrong with your girl? Probaly in this way she is trying to say something to you?
I noticed that girls try to gauge people's reactions
My step mom is the same way, I think that she does that so that she can see if people care about her
I had a girlfriend that would do that as well, I think that she was really trying to see if I would identify with her in a positive way
Although it goes both ways, if she is two faced then you should be on guard
Go read books about women. Ex. The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine, M.D.
Seriously. It'll help you to understand and appreciate them even more.
Read the Mars and Venus book. Success guaranteed.
Is that guy serious? I remember seeing him on Infomercials and I thought someone told me he was a fake - and people in Infomercials are...well usually fake...:unsure:Quote:
Originally Posted by Skweeky
Just found it on Amazon: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Men-Mars-Wom...6004636&sr=8-1
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The secret to good a relationship with your girlfriend is to always say "yes dear" and apologize even if you are not at fault in an argument, that by the way, for women, men are always at fault always. So you will never understand women, just yes dear and she will be happy, and after that, tell her you need her in your life, women love to hear that, they love to hear they are always right. They need men to need them.
I'm really enjoying this. Please, go on.....
:lookaroun
Charles Bukowski has an easier angle.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8KJiay6EI0[/youtube]
Spoiler: ShowCows In Art Class
good weather
is like
good women-
it doesn't always happen
and when it does
it doesn't
always last.
man is
more stable:
if he's bad
there's more chance
he'll stay that way,
or if he's good
he might hang
on,
but a woman
is changed
by
children
age
diet
conversation
sex
the moon
the absence or
presence of sun
or good times.
a woman must be nursed
into subsistence
by love
where a man can become
stronger
by being hated.
Omg! I'd read about that in an autobiography but I didn't realise it was on film. I'll tell you what, when a man you love looks at you and speaks to you like that it's the worst feeling in the world. You feel about 2 inches tall. Men are bastards.
:eyebrows:
women do it too.
A real man would never talk to a woman like that, that guy is an idiot, he should be castrated.Quote:
Originally Posted by Squeamous
Not all men are bastards, sometimes women talk to men like that, abuse comes in all shapes and forms.
it's in their nature...Quote:
Why are women so crazy?
HaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHaHa!!!!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by 100%Charles Bukowski has an easier angle.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt
[youtube]g8KJiay6EI0[/youtube]
Spoiler: ShowCows In Art Class
good weather
is like
good women-
it doesn't always happen
and when it does
it doesn't
always last.
man is
more stable:
if he's bad
there's more chance
he'll stay that way,
or if he's good
he might hang
on,
but a woman
is changed
by
children
age
diet
conversation
sex
the moon
the absence or
presence of sun
or good times.
a woman must be nursed
into subsistence
by love
where a man can become
stronger
by being hated.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v3...ghMyAssOff.gif
Btw, any women who says that all men are bastards should take a good look at the choices that they've made.
i agree with most you said, but what if she also complains that you agree too much and you don't show your opinion often.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
for the record, i usually do the same as you described, but even so i can't avoid all the discussions. shit.
what happens when they turn 30 ? :unsure:Quote:
Originally Posted by Squeamous
Believe me Cabalo women will never complain about agreeing with them, of course you can make believe you don't agree and come around of course, women are very smart, but they love to be right all the time.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cabaloi agree with most you said, but what if she also complains that you agree too much and you don't show your opinion often.
for the record, i usually do the same as you described, but even so i can't avoid all the discussions. shit.
what happens when they turn 30 ? :unsure:Quote:
Originally Posted by Squeamous
Just loose the arguemnt and tell her you need her and you are nothing without her, well sex tonight, I should have done that more often, og well single life is better lol. blood pressure is lower
30? Aren't women the same all the time at every age?
Yes, all women are exactly the same all the time.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
Kind of like McDonalds burgers.
I like'em with Sweet 'n Sour sauce.
Btw, any women who says that all men are bastards should take a good look at the choices that they've made.[/quote]
You are right, and it is funny that women always say they want a good man, but always end up with the bad boys, and then complaint about it, most women don't know what to do with a good man anyway.
I quite like Bukowski, so I find myself torn now :O.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomatoA real man would never talk to a woman like that, that guy is an idiot, he should be castrated.Quote:
Originally Posted by Squeamous
Not all men are bastards, sometimes women talk to men like that, abuse comes in all shapes and forms.
I can't imagine ever talking to anyone with such disrespect. If I ever felt that angry I'd just walk away.
Anyway, judging by your past posts you take being a bastard to the level of an art form!
Btw, I thought we were doing crass generalisations right now?Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt
Exactly, some of them have sex with the man in the first week and they blame men for being insensitive and sexism :blink:, and these type of women usually make their choices based on physical appearance.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
Some of you guys have come out with some crap, I've got to say.
Did you learn all this watching 1960's sitcoms?
I have no idea what you're talking about. I make my choices based on how rich he is :smilie4:Quote:
Originally Posted by walkman79Exactly, some of them have sex with the man in the first week and they blame men for being insensitive and sexism :blink:, and these type of women usually make their choices based on physical appearance.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
I'll expand upon it later.Quote:
Originally Posted by SqueamousBtw, I thought we were doing crass generalisations right now?Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt
If that was for me, I don't think you or anyone else can know anyone for a few posts. Assumptions are for ignorants, I don't know anyone here at all to say how they are.Quote:
Originally Posted by SqueamousI quite like Bukowski, so I find myself torn now :O.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
I can't imagine ever talking to anyone with such disrespect. If I ever felt that angry I'd just walk away.
Anyway, judging by your past posts you take being a bastard to the level of an art form!
You are right, it is better to walk away, I can't imaging talking like that to someone I loved or love, that would say the kind of horrible person I am.
But that kind of behaviour is about control, abuse and that should never be tolerated by the other person or society.
So if a woman has sex with you the first hour we meet, you have the right to treat her like crap?Quote:
Originally Posted by walkman79Exactly, some of them have sex with the man in the first week and they blame men for being insensitive and sexism :blink:, and these type of women usually make their choices based on physical appearance.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
It is like when people say that a woman with a mini skirt deserves to be raped, and no they do not deserve to be raped.
Having sex with anyone doesn't give anyone the right to treat the other person like that.
It is about choices and responsability, a people have to stop the control they have to have over the other one.
Well given that I was replying to your post, yes it was aimed at you. Personally I don't care if you want to pretend to be an ignorant sexist cunt, although I'm slightly baffled as to why. Unless it's an improvement on your real personality :O.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomatoIf that was for me, I don't think you or anyone else can know anyone for a few posts. Assumptions are for ignorants, I don't know anyone here at all to say how they are.Quote:
Originally Posted by Squeamous
You are right, it is better to walk away, I can't imaging talking like that to someone I loved or love, that would say the kind of horrible person I am.
But that kind of behaviour is about control, abuse and that should never be tolerated by the other person or society.
In hindsight I think Buk was playing the big shot for the cameras.
I think that kind of behaviour always comes from a place of psychological weakness, so I suppose people like that should be pitied. After being segregated from normal people naturally.
How did you come with that impression that I was a sexist?Quote:
Originally Posted by SqueamousWell given that I was replying to your post, yes it was aimed at you. Personally I don't care if you want to pretend to be an ignorant sexist cunt, although I'm slightly baffled as to why. Unless it's an improvement on your real personality :O.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
In hindsight I think Buk was playing the big shot for the cameras.
I think that kind of behaviour always comes from a place of psychological weakness, so I suppose people like that should be pitied. After being segregated from normal people naturally.
Not that I care at all, but for you to make such statements about me, you should back that up, I repeat I really don't care anyway.
If anyone acted sexist that was you in what you said before about all men.
It's not sexist to say that women always want to be right, that's a fact, if you like it or not.
Men a women like that, they should be given a letal injection, they are not good for nothing anyway.
I think you are trying to cover your true colors because of what Squeamous said. I was actually referring to women who make bad choices. I have friends who behave like that and I give them advice but they actually don't listen (or forget), I have never disrespect a woman or treat her bad for her behavior or how she looks. But I will never expect love from a short adventure, I'm old enough to differentiate love from an adventure. I'm a married man who has never cheated on my wife.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomatoSo if a woman has sex with you the first hour we meet, you have the right to treat her like crap?Quote:
Originally Posted by walkman79
It is like when people say that a woman with a mini skirt deserves to be raped, and no they do not deserve to be raped.
Having sex with anyone doesn't give anyone the right to treat the other person like that.
It is about choices and responsability, a people have to stop the control they have to have over the other one.
This is a great topic.
My true colors? lol lol regardless of what you meant to say, you are the one that said it, so look at your colors first.Quote:
Originally Posted by walkman79I think you are trying to cover your true colors because of what Squeamous said. I was actually referring to women who make bad choices. I have friends who behave like that and I give them advice but they actually don't listen (or forget), I have never disrespect a woman or treat her bad for her behavior or how she looks. But I will never expect love from a short adventure, I'm old enough to differentiate love from an adventure. I'm a married man who has never cheated on my wife.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
Listen bro, I am not interest on your life and I don't think you are interested on mine, so let's keep this on topic, let's not make it a you or me thingy.
Considering how some of the gentlemen in this thread posted in reply, I think the answer as to 'why women are crazy' lies there ;)
but it's still ok to have sex with a woman we haven't met before, yes? :unsure:
... as before that day.
I think I'm in love :wub:Quote:
Originally Posted by SqueamousWell given that I was replying to your post, yes it was aimed at you. Personally I don't care if you want to pretend to be an ignorant sexist cunt, although I'm slightly baffled as to why. Unless it's an improvement on your real personality :O.Quote:
Originally Posted by pentomato
In hindsight I think Buk was playing the big shot for the cameras.
I think that kind of behaviour always comes from a place of psychological weakness, so I suppose people like that should be pitied. After being segregated from normal people naturally.
Actually, I've only read this last page, so I'd better go and read the rest of the thread before I commit myself :unsure:
Skweeky & Squeamous, I'd like to apologise for the level of patronisation in this thread.
I'd like to, but then I'd be associating myself with some of the opinions shown. :unsure:
I think you should continue with your current Diversity training though, I'm sure if you kick 'em enough they'll stay down ;)