Yes, I am.
http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/calvin+dances.gif
After two years and two months, Im finally free again.
:( :ph34r:
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Yes, I am.
http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/calvin+dances.gif
After two years and two months, Im finally free again.
:( :ph34r:
Think happy thoughts.
Oh and was he really perfect?
Divorced...or you just said the hell with it?Quote:
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 15:55
Yes, I am.
http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/calvin+dances.gif
After two years and two months, Im finally free again.
:( :ph34r:
He's far from perfect, and we just piss each other off now.Quote:
Originally posted by SnnY@13 June 2004 - 15:57
Oh and was he really perfect?
He called one of my pals in the middle of the night cos I had a dodgy txt on my phone. Its just getting silly. :(
I adore him, we have loads in common, and have just lost our baby, but things have gotta change.
But he's still living with me until he gets somewhere else. Its fluffing my head up.
Just dunno what to do with myself. :unsure:
Try to focus on his flaws then. :)
I seem to recall something about him logging in here under your name too, if it helps.
What happened here?Quote:
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 16:05
and have just lost our baby.
take me lilmiss!! i'm single!! :lol: :lol:
:(
He's done far worse than that snny, pal. <_<
He's read my diaries, personal letters, bank statements, phone bills, and phone daily.
He has checked my undies to see if I have had sex, asked pals for information on me, had me followed, n more.
Its been driving me loopy, Its kinda like dating a stalker.
He also said I killed my baby, even though he took it back, it gutted me. :(
Throw him out on his ass and never look back. :)
Fookin' bstrd.
Not very nice of Him :( I'm sure You'll find a better one lilmiss :)
BOT
I thought u had baby, :smilie4:
http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/...msam/mad01.gif Burn him!!!!!!!!11!1 http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/...msam/mad01.gifQuote:
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 16:15
He's done far worse than that snny, pal. <_<
He's read my diaries, personal letters, bank statements, phone bills, and phone daily.
He has checked my undies to see if I have had sex, asked pals for information on me, had me followed, n more.
Its been driving me loopy, Its kinda like dating a stalker.
He also said I killed my baby, even though he took it back, it gutted me. :(
Thanks, Im sure things will get better.
Just cant believe what shitty luck Ive had.
Can we kill him now!!!
It sounds like getting rid off him is a good thing for you, so i'm pretty sure I'm happy for you right now. :)
;) There's someone out there that is worthy of you Lilmiss. If he does that shit now, it will only get worse.
Hang in there, it gets better.
:)
Yeah, I suppose Im half happy its over.
But its really hard to start getting over him, while he's still sharing a bed n telling me he loves me.
I really do love him to bits, just wish he wasnt such an http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/asshole.gif
Arggggghhhhh!!!!!!!
I need a holiday.
N a joint. ;)
:o Oh, that's so hard. But I've walked away from the only 2 men I've loved because they were assholes.
I found it wasnt worth it in the end.
:lol: Joints help. A lot.
Well, Im gonna go roll a huge one n sit at me frontdoor with a bottle of becks, and a book. Simple things in life, eh? :)
If anyone runs into Zero, can you tell him to get in touch with me please.
Cya all soon. :01:
Hey lilmiss :D
Message sent. :)Quote:
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 17:43
If anyone runs into Zero, can you tell him to get in touch with me please.
look on the brightside. the guys on here are happy. we can dream again :ph34r:
Sounds like you're not quite "out-from-under" yet, lilmiss.
In any case, we're all pulling for you (as well you know :) ), and here's hoping you are able to assess new prospects with a keener eye toward your well-being.
Take care. ;)
if you have split - then kick him out of the apartment immediatly
you both need reality checks and get on with your own life
men !!! :rolleyes:
women !!! :ph34r:Quote:
Originally posted by gemby!@13 June 2004 - 17:47
men !!! :rolleyes:
Good luck lillmiss....Just get him out asap....I let mine stay for a further 8 months after we split...almost made me go loopy......
I don't really like this smiley,but it's useful sometimes: :hug:
Be strong Lil' one!
Don't let him stay whatever he says, it'll only make it even more painful...
just get over it and beware the smiley looks way bad
I hate it!!! http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/..._hugcensor.gifQuote:
Originally posted by Gurahl@13 June 2004 - 18:23
I don't really like this smiley,but it's useful sometimes: (EDITED OUT)
women !!! :ph34r: [/b][/quote]Quote:
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men !!! :rolleyes:
i sed men :rolleyes: !!!!
dont start an arguement !!! :angry:
:P
now thats sorted let me say it again
men ! :rolleyes:
i sed men :rolleyes: !!!!Quote:
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Originally posted by Marius24@13 June 2004 - 17:53
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@13 June 2004 - 17:47
men !!! :rolleyes:
women !!! :ph34r:
dont start an arguement !!! :angry:
:P
now thats sorted let me say it again
men ! :rolleyes: [/b][/quote]
women :rolleyes:
playground fight go go go
Lilmiss,
I have followed your saga with this guy for a year now, and of course, to us he looks like a total prick because you used to vent here about things he did that pissed you off. I am sure that there is another side to him which makes him a little more human, but I think you need to GET HIM THE FUCK OUT, TODAY.
I'm not going to recapitulate what you have posted in the past, but the summary is that you will never love him.
He doesn't want to go, you may be afraid of being alone and this pathetic situation will linger on and on.
You have a chance to hit the RESET button and start over. YOU need to take him out and find him a place, today.
You know we will be here to keep you company.
OMG!!! I actually agree with Hobbes!Quote:
Originally posted by hobbes@13 June 2004 - 20:04
Lilmiss,
I have followed your saga with this guy for a year now, and of course, to us he looks like a total prick because you used to vent here about things he did that pissed you off. I am sure that there is another side to him which makes him a little more human, but I think you need to GET HIM THE FUCK OUT, TODAY.
I'm not going to recapitulate what you have posted in the past, but the summary is that you will never love him.
He doesn't want to go, you may be afraid of being alone and this pathetic situation will linger on and on.
You have a chance to hit the RESET button and start over. YOU need to take him out and find him a place, today.
You know we will be here to keep you company.
There is a generous, sweet, loving side to him.Quote:
Originally posted by hobbes@13 June 2004 - 20:04
I am sure that there is another side to him which makes him a little more human, but I think you need to GET HIM THE FUCK OUT, TODAY.
But I dont need to moan about those bits. ;)
I know everything will be ok once he's gone, but I cant kick him out til he gets somewhere, he gave up everything to move in with me. I owe him a bit of time at least.
Thanks for the support guys.
Hobbes, I love the way you put things in black n white for me. :)
Beg or borrow the $ to get him another situ to live. NOW. And then say NEXT. And don't ever expect the money back. Just to get rid of him, it's worth your peace o' mind.
:(, bastard.....blaming you for the loss of the baby is so incredibly unfair....I agree with Hobbes and Zap, get him out of there NOW. I remember he got in fights with your friends, this guy sounds like he doesn't deserve you one bit.
Time to move on, throw all that baggage behind and start afresh, you deserve someone so much better. A lot of shit has happened to you recently and his treatment of you (from what I've read) musn't have helped.
As always, I am here whenever you need me, MSN, PM, Soulseek, I'm here.
even tho he gave up everything to be with you as u said in your post... it sounds as though you've more than "made up for it" (even tho it shouldnt be seen like that, i hope u know what i mean
it seems as though u have been thru more than enough and by letting him stay, and share a bed, etc you're postponing your healing
its hard to let go sometimes but you need to be strong and do whats best for you, bc thats whats important its not your job to take care of him
I bet he is still around, do you get me point now? It is all about "want to"!