My Mums Boyfriend

once again he has thrown a wobbler while him and my mum were out.. i dont know what over but in the 2-3+ years they have been going out this has happened about 10 times.. tonight while at the club he threw a bottle (or tried to) over my mums head.. he was quickly surrounded by about 10 guys ( :01: ) all waiting to pwn his ass..


i am occasionally involved in this while at home, almost standing as a bodyguard to my mum waiting for the 6ft 3 guy to through a punch at me. luckly he is ginger otherwise i wud be shit scared of him :lol: (tryin 2 make a light joke on the matter)

we have all the doors locked with the keys in fearing that he could come in.. damn i hope i dont end up like him.. fucking ruins my childhood shit like this <_<

<_< That sounds pretty bad, any idea why your mum puts up with him??

:) At least you&#39;re trying to make light of it and know it&#39;s not the way to behave.

Thats shitty, and I can only say I wish I could help, if you get the bastard let me know
we&#39;ll bury him wherever I stick my 3 burglars... :01:

my mother had lots of boyfreinds like that,including my dad.If you a big guy that knows how to fight like me then i suggest you do what i did,Kick the shit out of all of them.Yeah your fighting guys that are 2 times your age but alest you let him know that you really really dont like him.It worked for me.Every bad guy my mom has dated i got into a fight with,i dint win them all but alest in the end he was gone.

:ph34r: lotsa violence in here at the moment.

not that I blame ya for being pissed off, but still :helpsmile:

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Originally posted by *goddess*@27 June 2004 - 02:15
:ph34r: lotsa violence in here at the moment.

not that I blame ya for being pissed off, but still :helpsmile:

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:lol: guess its a guy thing to protect

Its a guy thing to lose one&#39;s temper... :angry:

:( Janey, I wish it wasn&#39;t the case but at the end of the day, theres a bastard in some eople...

Nevermind&#33; Do I still get to dance? :01: :D

:01: But I&#39;m tuff.....ish :lol:

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Originally posted by *goddess*@27 June 2004 - 02:27
:01: But I&#39;m tuff.....ish :lol:

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im sure you can kick some ass *goddess*
:01: :01:

:D @ Ben, you&#39;re right about the bastardage (new word??) long as we don&#39;t sink to their level too much I guess. :blink: That doesn&#39;t even make sense to me. :lol:

;) I&#39;ll always dance with ya, but better make it quick, I&#39;m supposed to be mowing the lawn. :rolleyes:

:smilie4: Ya got that right DD

(and I can run pretty quick and duck low to dodge :lol:

:lol: guess its a guy thing to protect [/QUOTE]

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Originally posted by Donnie Darko+27 June 2004 - 04:19--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Donnie Darko &#064; 27 June 2004 - 04:19)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteBegin-*goddess*@27 June 2004 - 02:15
:ph34r: lotsa violence in here at the moment.

not that I blame ya for being pissed off, but still :helpsmile:

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:lol: guess its a guy thing to protect[/b][/quote]
Protection can be done in many ways......

And true protection lasts....

Did you never blame your ma for her choice of partner, disregarding your

discomfort?

I am happy for you it worked in your opinion, though.....


Bet if they were assholes, they had it coming.....

Just not my style.


@dave: i had not a good childhood after my mom died when i was seven and my

dad made all the wrong moves you can think of.....

You sound quite clever and friendly; you will make it&#33;&#33;&#33;

And remember you have whole life ahead of you living that childhood; see

how demented i can be at 45........

Ohh, and i assure you, you&#39;ll never be like "them"&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;


yokidzhttp://img.photobucket.com/albums/v2...ketofuckme.jpg

i have my moments to lose my temper.. im 15 nd around 6ft.. if he tries to come back i would (and will) hapilly take a shot at him.. :01:


and then when he tries 1 back i sue him :lol:

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Originally posted by SensualBarfing@27 June 2004 - 02:33

Did you never blame your ma for her choice of partner

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hell yeah i do,but she&#39;s my mom what can i do but tell het how i feel

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Originally posted by TheRealDave@27 June 2004 - 02:01
once again he has thrown a wobbler while him and my mum were out.. i dont know what over but in the 2-3+ years they have been going out this has happened about 10 times.. tonight while at the club he threw a bottle (or tried to) over my mums head.. he was quickly surrounded by about 10 guys ( :01: ) all waiting to pwn his ass..


i am occasionally involved in this while at home, almost standing as a bodyguard to my mum waiting for the 6ft 3 guy to through a punch at me. luckly he is ginger otherwise i wud be shit scared of him :lol: (tryin 2 make a light joke on the matter)

we have all the doors locked with the keys in fearing that he could come in.. damn i hope i dont end up like him.. fucking ruins my childhood shit like this <_<

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know what you need? a stick and some home-made pepper sprayhttp://img69.photobucket.com/albums/...-yogimodel.jpg

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Did you never blame your ma for her choice of partner

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hell yeah i do,but she&#39;s my mom what can i do but tell het how i feel [/b][/quote]
That &#39;s all you can do.... :P


And i should correct something, i said "not my style", but i think if i saw my ma

get beaten, i would do probably do the same as you.......


yogi

Its crazy to see what you&#39;ll do to protect someone :01:

damn right - smack his ass da fuck up - but the main thing is tio prtect you rmum adn that may be in other methods .. not know ing your situation much I woudl take a "guess" that you need to talk abou t all this to her.

im older now and i think my mom&#39;s old enough to pic the right guys now

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Originally posted by Donnie Darko@27 June 2004 - 10:58
im older now and i think my mom&#39;s old enough to pic the right guys now

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ok - good, but I was talking to Dave but if you gazed into my wisdom and enjoyed ti I thank you for that

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im older now and i think my mom&#39;s old enough to pic the right guys now

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ok - good, but I was talking to Dave but if you gazed into my wisdom and enjoyed ti I thank you for that [/b][/quote]
:lol: ok

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Originally posted by Donnie Darko@27 June 2004 - 11:02

:lol: ok

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Are you dissing my bat? <_<

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:lol: ok

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Are you dissing my bat? <_< [/b][/quote]
of course not :smilie4:

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@27 June 2004 - 11:02

:lol: ok

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Are you dissing my bat? <_<

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of course not :smilie4: [/b][/quote]
thx :D

this aint the right way to do it but ,this is what a friend and i handled a matter like this&#33;

1 day his moms new boyfriend was trippin so we decided to change his life&#33; :D
we waited till he was nice a drunk like he always is around 5pm :frusty:
half passed out we walk in on him while he watching tv and 1 of u hold his hands
while the other threatens his lil life with a knife to the throat&#33;..and some kind words of touch my boys mom again and you&#39;ll find yourself butt naked in the woods with nowhere to go :D ....like i said it was&#39;nt the best way to handle the matter ,but it worked this guy has&#39;nt drank in 4 yrs and now when we see him he acts like he know cuz if he don&#39;t he&#39;ll see another fearfull night ;)

The old knife cure...works all the time :D

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Originally posted by Donnie Darko@27 June 2004 - 07:13
The old knife cure...works all the time :D

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:D damn right always works&#33; ;)

many times that has changed ppl life :lol:

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The old knife cure...works all the time :D

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:D damn right always works&#33; ;)

many times that has changed ppl life :lol: [/b][/quote]
how often do u do that shit? :lol:


and guess who i found in the house this morning.. <_<

i had 2 leave the room because i didnt want to hit him infront of my little sis :(

These so called mums are very lucky to have kids who will stick by them no matter how much they are screwing up their childhoods. You all deserve medals for keeping your sanity.

Maybe one day I&#39;ll be lucky enough to have someone who will kick ass on my behalf :D

As for ending up like your folks I agree with Yogi, I don&#39;t think it truly happens, we&#39;re all given choices in alife and we all have free will.

I think some of you are being a bit too hard on the &#39;mum&#39; here. I don&#39;t think she actually does this on purpose and none of you seem to understand that once you get into a violent rel&#39;p, you get into a vicious circle as well.

Violence from someone you love breaks you down not only fysically, but mostly emotionally as well. Often it isn&#39;t a matter of not wanting to escape, it&#39;s a matter of not being able to.

It&#39;s exactly this stupid and right out despicable attitude that stops women in situations like this from trying to get help. <_<

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Originally posted by Skweeky@29 June 2004 - 16:02
I think some of you are being a bit too hard on the &#39;mum&#39; here. I don&#39;t think she actually does this on purpose and none of you seem to understand that once you get into a violent rel&#39;p, you get into a vicious circle as well.

Violence from someone you love breaks you down not only fysically, but mostly emotionally as well. Often it isn&#39;t a matter of not wanting to escape, it&#39;s a matter of not being able to.

It&#39;s exactly this stupid and right out despicable attitude that stops women in situations like this from trying to get help. <_<

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i agree, i was talking to my mum and she said how she had been trying to rid of him for months but fears him too much.. i&#39;m sure it will all work out for the best soon enough B)

Well, the best you can do is be supportive and assure her that you&#39;ll be there to help her. Make her understand she&#39;s not alone in dealing with it. That it&#39;s not a crime to feel scared and that the police are actually there to help out with stuff like this.

Good luck :)

If all else fails...Kick some ass :lol: :boxing:

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Originally posted by Skweeky@29 June 2004 - 16:14
Well, the best you can do is be supportive and assure her that you&#39;ll be there to help her. Make her understand she&#39;s not alone in dealing with it. That it&#39;s not a crime to feel scared and that the police are actually there to help out with stuff like this.

Good luck :)

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thanks :D

@donnie, already got it covered :shifty:

social services child protection if in the uk and age wise you fit the bill that is a solid move call them you got a mark show them
I have worked with them good people good luck.

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Originally posted by Voetsek@29 June 2004 - 17:10
social services child protection if in the uk and age wise you fit the bill that is a solid move call them you got a mark show them
I have worked with them good people good luck.

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social services are full of shit they dont fix enything.

child protection are not your run of the mill one is a police officer and one a social worker i have dealt with them damn hard arse bunch

the social services have no answers.All they do is take you away

Whats you answer then?

Try to fix things

Perhaps if i&#39;d have said "How do you suggest we fix things?"

...never mind :music1: