a dead dedibox

hey i just got axx to a deadibox and i try to connetct through windows remote desktop connection but i either get errors of connection timing out or in starts to connect and before i ever reach the logon page it dies ("connection broken")
and its lagging like crazy, it moves soo slowly even with 1gb ram.
anyone have any idea??
i was thinking maybe theres a better way to connect other than windows remote desktop since its microshit?
thanks.

Are you uploading at max form your own computer ?

That might have something to say, not as much as you explain but might have something to so with it.

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