Homos!

**Blythorama** · 11-08-2005, 07:51 PM

Originally Posted by manker

Originally Posted by Busy

Hell no. She still was attracted to women. No one can turn off that attraction.

But you can turn it on, right?

So let me get this straight, people can decide to be gay but can't decide not to be gay.

At least so you said in a different thread

Personally, I think there are more degrees of sexuality than just gay or straight. I think there is a whole spectrum beween homo and heterosexual and a person may not necessarily stay at the same point all their life.

If you want to sleep with women as a woman, you label yourself gay because that is what society defines you as but I think it's more complex than that and one can be slightly gay, mostly gay, or full-on-gay. I've known gay people who have defined themselves gay in their teens, and then wanted to sleep with the opposite sex and really questioned their sexuality, even though they still mostly fancied the same sex.

Sexuality, like human nature, is fickle.

**Busyman** · 11-08-2005, 07:55 PM

I think the nature part is the urge to achieve orgasm.

I think nurture is everything else.

**manker** · 11-08-2005, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by Busyman

Originally Posted by manker

I have a photographic memory

Nah. You've done stuff like that before.

It's probably more a problem with your reading comprehension than you being deceptive.

I apologize for my previous remarks.

My reading comprehension borders on perfect. My memory isn't actually that hot, I was taking the piss with the photographic memory thing ... .

Anyhow, it is my, fairly, vivid recollection that you said that people can decide who and which sex they find attractive. I remember entirely disagreeing with this view.

It was a year ago and the thread was several pages long, so I can't say that I've definitively stated your view on the subject.

**Busyman** · 11-08-2005, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by manker

Originally Posted by Busyman

Nah. You've done stuff like that before.

It's probably more a problem with your reading comprehension than you being deceptive.

I apologize for my previous remarks.

My reading comprehension borders on perfect. My memory isn't actually that hot, I was taking the piss with the photographic memory thing ... .

Anyhow, it is my, fairly, vivid recollection that you said that people can decide who and which sex they find attractive. I remember entirely disagreeing with this view.

It was a year ago and the thread was several pages long, so I can't say that I've definitively stated your view on the subject.

It wasn't me, bubba.

The only thing I've said definitively was that I don't believe people are born gay. Small minded people automatically decide that if one believes this way, that it must be choice.

I say it's neither.