Things you Avoid?

[Agrajag]

All best Agrajag from Barry

Things you Avoid? ~ A wolf in sheep's clothing

Thank you, right back at you big guy.

[Buffalo]

So it's general chronic anxieties, rather than a specific bus phobia.

Are you housebound because of a fear of leaving, or is that a physical thing.

"my own fault i was to nice & trusting to someone close"

All best Agrajag from Barry

Things you Avoid? ~ A wolf in sheep's clothing

Not you Dude!

I had a split up ~ god don't give me more Anxiety please!

Sorry!

[Agrajag]

Only toying with you mate.

I'm a sheep in wolf's clothing.

[Buffalo]

Sorry, I've got a job keeping it together at the Mo,
Don't know if I should be on here,
I'm well fucked in the head, well lost

I don't want to give up, but i'm having a Job

I'm not on here to cause any trouble

Things you Avoid? ~ people like me with major head problems

[Agrajag]

Sorry, I've got a job keeping it together at the Mo,
Don't know if I should be on here,
I'm well fucked in the head, well lost

I don't want to give up, but i'm having a Job

I'm not on here to cause any trouble

Things you Avoid? ~ people like me with major head problems

This is trivia, do what the feck you want, vent.

[Yogi]

[hobbes]

I avoid dog shit. There's a pile right in the middle of my usual path to school

I know the feeling https://filesharingtalk.com/vb3/t106849.html I used to be a fisherman, after we got ashore we had to clear the nets of weed "not the smoking type" Seaweed ~ it was a matter of running the nets across the pebble stones "picture of east beach Sheringham ~ pebble beach" the problem was dog poo ~ it got caught in the nets, so as you can imagine it was not a nice job, well nasty, we had a job to do but things like that made it nasty ~ apart from that fishing on the norfolk coast was very good, back in 1985 the boat I worked was catching a 1000 crabs a day, this is the peek of the crab fishing ever on the Norfolk coast, things now are a different matter, our local fishermen are struggling with a total catch of 120 crabs on average a day ~ well bad ~

Maybe the crabs have decided to avoid you pesty fishermen.

[hobbes]

i'm good, tanks Baz. hope you is too.


i also detest public transport.
they are always late, dirty, driven by lunatics and far too pricey.

unlike my buses, which are kept in good condition and driven by Midas certified drivers. [//end sales pitch]

You forgot to mention the everpresent guy who drinks vodka at the back of the bus who smells like he has been dipped in stale concentrated urine.

(And no, you are not legally allowed to drink alcohol on a public bus.)

[Agrajag]

(And no, you are not legally allowed to drink alcohol on a public bus.)

Where.

[hobbes]

So it's general chronic anxieties, rather than a specific bus phobia.

Are you housebound because of a fear of leaving, or is that a physical thing.

anything can trigger me off, I am at a stage where I know what I can do and the things I can't do, I have panic attacks all the time.
I've had a big upset just latly and it's thrown me back so i'm having palpitations again, my own fault i was to nice & trusting to someone close.
I hav'ent been at home for 7 weeks due to my illness, doctors orders not to be on my own.
getting back on FST has helped, i'm not the only one by far with problems like this, so it makes me feel more welcome on FST, I'm not so alone.

All best Agrajag from Barry

Things you Avoid? ~ A wolf in sheep's clothing

Best of lucky Barry, I have a friend who has been through your situation. He confided in me, almost ashamed by what he had to say, that sometimes, for no appreciable reason, he would would feel like the world was coming to an end, that he was going to literally die and his heart would race. I've known this guy since age 6 and he was never like that. Just something that afflicted him. With medicine, he got better.

I recently have started becoming very unsettled, not by loud music, but huge bass sounds that seem to grow and grow and feel to big for the building, like they are going to rattle the building apart.

This never bothered me before.

I notice it at "Best Buy" when someone in the stero room starts playing with a system. You really can't hear the music, but you can feel the bass. I get the smothering feeling that the building will collapse, that the bass will just keep strengthening until something shatters.

It makes me sweat and feel very uncomfortable, but I just stand there looking at movies, calm as can be. I just tell myself to deal with it, but I can really appreciate just the type of miserable feeling you experience.

I get the same feeling when I have to talk in front of a group of people, particularly strangers. I mean, I want to frigging run away, my mouth dries up, I sweat like a leaky faucet.

So I compensate by bringing a bottle of water and wearing a jacket to mask the sweat. I intentionally alter my posture to appear calm. I over prepare my project so that if I get a brain lock up, I don't have to think, I can just read my slide. I don't have to remember what I was supposed to say. Funny thing is that after 5 minutes, eveything is fine and by the end I'm enjoying myself.

I know my job requires these talks, I know they make me nervous, I sure as hell am not going to go running out of the room, so I make adaptations and wheather the storm.

It gets better every time.

Good luck, but more than that be tough.