
Originally Posted by
j2k4
You'd stack up rather well against many of the current crop of inner-city ne'er-do-wells, I think.
Despite some of your less-than-honorable inclinations as to material acquisition, it seems you've done some downright mainstream things with your life-you have a pretty good job, a family situation (never mind you should marry the lady and adopt the kid-my opinion), own a house, write (lousy) screenplays, you have a good mind, righteous self-respect, and, best of all, you hang out with
me in here.
That's more than most black inner-city kids can even dream of-that you aren't involved in mentoring (especially given what is on your D.C.-doorstep) is a shame.
Unless you don't have a grad degree in ebonics, of course.

The fella that came up with "ebonics" should get a foot hung up his ass.
Most of why kids (not just black kids) fuck up is 'cause of wanting to belong.
They end up doing dumb shit.
While getting off the subway last week, I saw a younger fella that I played basketball with for many years. I tried telling what was what when he gets out of school, gave hima ride home from the court when he needed it (many of them piled in my car).
It broke my heart when I told the reason he wasn't showing up anymore was because he tried to rob a Pizza Bolis near where I live.
When I talked to him he said that wasn't him that robbed the store but he did something else to fuck up and served 18 months in juvi. (either way he fucked up)
He put all his eggs in the "Ima get into the NBA" basket(ball), jumped from high school to high school to get on a team but didn't cut it, and lost his focus on WHAT REALLY WAS IMPORTANT so fucking up ensued.
One thing I try to get all of them to do is, if they aren't going to college, take the the test for Verizon. It's good pay, good benefits, and ALL COLLEGE IS PAYED FOR.
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Btw, I have been with her here for a little over a year. We'll get married soon enough. Unfortunately I'm one of those "live together first" (shack up) types.
My crowning achievement is that....I hang out with you in here.

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