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    I've known my friend for like a long time, we have been good friends for about 20 years; I've been seeing a lot of her in the last 6 months or so.
    at one time I could see that her partner was not impressed with the amount of time we spend with each other, I did have a chat and said no way would I interfere with their relationship.
    But things are quite odd, this is the 3rd time in the last 6 months that she has tuned against me for no reason, at the end of the day all I wanted was good friendship, we all need good friends, but I now get the feeling that she has some feelings for me, if I mention that Iím seeing someone, like on a blind date, she seems to go into one and won't speak to me for a week.
    Perhaps she's just possessive
    It's fucked things up, as she was the only person I get on well with, I know we have spent a lot of time together, but I only did this as I have only a few friends, and she was the one who phoned me or popped in to see me.
    don't get me wrong, I'm not troubling her with my probs, we honestly have a great time and enjoy our friendship.

    What the fuck do I do?

    I think the only thing I can do at the mo is back off a bit, before it gets out of hand, I've have not made a move on her at any time, I respect friendship & I have respect for her partner, i'm just not like that.

    It's a big fecking pickle; I don't want to loose my friend
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    You could be fuck buddies
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    It is probably her boyfriend who is machismo possesive. hence causing her to be cautious.
    She obviously loves you as a friend, just give it time and space.
    if she is your friend then you can obviously tell her everything
    friends last longer

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    @ manker, I've never had fuck buddies.
    why would I fuck up their relationship just for a shag, could not live with the guilt, once you shag then it becomes a fecked up friendship.
    Don’t get me wrong mate, I’m not having a go, I respect what you say Dude!

    @ 100%, I can tell her anything, and I have over the years, she is a nice woman and I do have respect for her.
    Her partner is not possesive, he has a job just to be allowed out on a weekend especially on his own, it's not nice to see, and I’m glad I’m not in the same situ.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Buffalo
    @ manker,

    Donít get me wrong mate, Iím not having a go, I respect what you say Dude!
    Ace post.

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    FFS, never, ever, take what I say seriously regarding matters of the heart.
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    Quote Originally Posted by manker
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    FFS, never, ever, take what I say seriously regarding matters of the heart.
    Strictly speaking you were discussing matters of the nob, but I take your point.

    ooer missus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JPaul
    Quote Originally Posted by manker
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    FFS, never, ever, take what I say seriously regarding matters of the heart.
    Strictly speaking you were discussing matters of the nob, but I take your point.

    ooer missus.
    Hoi! Don't talk about my mate Baz like that.

    He has feelings too, you know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by manker
    Quote Originally Posted by JPaul
    Strictly speaking you were discussing matters of the nob, but I take your point.

    ooer missus.
    Hoi! Don't talk about my mate Baz like that.

    He has feelings too, you know.
    He's just a big Norfolk Aussie hormone if truth be told.

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    I'm enjoying life at the mo; it's great to get back doing the things I love,
    and new stuff like diving.
    What you have to remember is that I've been a recluse for some years, getting back to real life has been quite hard.
    Making the first move to get outside the house was extremely bad, even going for a walk, I could not do it, and I just froze up.
    Now things are a lot better, I can now get to the shop and down the beach.
    I am able to go out on my Bike.
    I still have small bouts of Anxiety but nothing like it was.

    I don't like negative people; they just run me down till I’m so fucking low,
    All I wanted was a good Friend, someone who I can trust, have fun with but not someone who does this to me all the time as it's fucking me up.
    Like I said if I've done nothing wrong.

    People are odd; sometimes it's best just to be on your own.
    I don't want a relationship and I’m not looking for one no more.
    After using the fleshlight it's better than the real thing and without all the complications.
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