Originally Posted by
dedlikeoscar
Sure, marriage may not be for everybody but a lot of the problem is people that are married fight over one of two things(or both): money and infidelity. Both of which often boil down to a lack of trust (Unless you are just plain poor--that can cause a lot of stress as well). If you trust your partner and are trustworthy yourself, you can work through most anything together. I have been with my wife for going on 10 years -- being married 3 of those years. These last 3 years have been the best of the last 10. You guys can knock marriage all you want, it won't change my feelings for my wife. Being married and having children are the greatest accomplishments in my life. Nothing (my education, my career, etc.) will ever come close to making me feel as whole as I do now.
I believe u are happy now......but u have to look further down the Track..
Kids become adolecent....bring problems home....they rebel and parents have no control over them.....
Before long the parents will be blaming each other......over issues like....
Why are they getting speeding fines.....why are they coming home at 3am...
where do they go at night....why are they smoking and drinking.
The parents forget that they should be on the same side,and they start blaming each other over their kids behaviour......
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