Cheating BF

[Barbarossa]

I'm finding it hard to really give a shit either way here

[tralalala]

She's doing that thing Ebay sellers do, when they tell a lie of omission. They say 'I can't guarantee this DVD/game/camera works because I haven't tried it, buy at your peril, no returns'. When really they have tried it and it doesn't work.

That is relevant somehow .

How does this metaphor relate to my current situation?

[Something Else]

She's saying it's a way of covering up guilt over something.
Not necessarily true tho.

Why don't you ask your girl's firend if you are still worried.

[tralalala]

She doesn't remember fuckall about last night, so all she can say for herself is she doesn't remember anything.. Obviously she could be saying this in all seriousness, cuz she simple doesn't have a clue of what happened, if anything.

[Something Else]

Exactly. Maybe you shouldn't be with her unless you trust her tho'.

[Something Else]

I think i've right pissed off your fellow BT-Modulators btw.

[tralalala]

I want her, she wants me. I know from previous encounters that she sort of goes with the stream when she's pished, but doesn't remember a single thing the next day.. So yes that can be a problem. On the other hand, she may have simply sat with her friend puking all evening and I'm getting up tight over nothing..

Question is, what the hell is the right thing to do with her? Or say to her..?



And go ahead, it's about time someone pished them orf.. Incompetent little cunts, the lot.

[Chip Monk]

She's saying it's a way of covering up guilt over something.
Not necessarily true tho.

Why don't you ask your girl's firend if you are still worried.

He should know himself if he's still worried, why ask her.

[Squeamous]

How does this metaphor relate to my current situation?

Kind of what Benchez said. By saying she can't remember it makes it equally possible that she could have been laid by the uni football team or puked in her knickers and passed out at home alone. She's leaving you to decide. This is kinda what happened with me and my OH, all that 'I can't remember' bollocks. In the end I decided to go with the absolute worst that could have happened, and then realised I could get over it anyway.

Or on the other hand she really can't remember. In which case she needs a good talking to. I've never been that drunk that I didn't have a gist of what happened the night before, and I have been in such a state I puked in my pants. You forget the detail, but you don't forget the general stuff. So if she's telling the truth she really must have taken her life in her hands, which when you love someone you don't do for their sake. All IMO of course....I'm probably talking as much crap as everyone else.

[Something Else]

She's saying it's a way of covering up guilt over something.
Not necessarily true tho.

Why don't you ask your girl's firend if you are still worried.

He should know himself if he's still worried, why ask her.

True that