Some years ago a girlfriend wanted to stick her finger up my butt,then proceeded to opine at length that I was afraid I might be gay cause I would not let her, would bring it up
whenever we got nude which led to me not wanting to be nude with her which of course led to the end of the relationship.
If you attack the establishment long enough and hard enough, they will make you a member of it.
-- Art Buchwald --
Imo once you've done or suggested doing something your partner doesn't feel entirely comfortable with, any eroticism it might have inspired completely disappears. Anyone who thinks cajoling is the way forward doesn't care about you enough to deserve you and is clearly a queynt.
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