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    Long story short:

    I have a GF that I've dated for a year, currently I'm in university and she's still in last year of high school. We were really close back then, but now the distance is getting to me. She's still really attached to me, so I don't want to break her heart as I still have some affection for her. However, recently I've met another girl who just drives me crazy, everything I ever want etcetc. Basically I'm infatuated with this new girl. I really don't know what to do, I try to do the right thing and forget about her, but I just can't and it's driving me insane.

    What should I do?
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    Love them together dont prefer one
    but your choice if you wanna piss off one indeed http://inventorspot.com/relationship_advice
    Last edited by RedRansom; 10-19-2008 at 08:01 AM.

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    hhmmm, just break your old girls heart.
    Make some senior's year a good one when they become her fallback (rebound) guy/girl.
    Let your GF know what's up, maybe she has a better idea on how to handle it.
    Worse comes to worst, she brakes up with you and you have a sob story to tell the new girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seedler View Post
    Long story short:

    I have a GF that I've dated for a year, currently I'm in university and she's still in last year of high school. We were really close back then, but now the distance is getting to me. She's still really attached to me, so I don't want to break her heart as I still have some affection for her. However, recently I've met another girl who just drives me crazy, everything I ever want etcetc. Basically I'm infatuated with this new girl. I really don't know what to do, I try to do the right thing and forget about her, but I just can't and it's driving me insane.

    What should I do?
    You are afflicting both.

    Leave them (as well as all other women) alone.
    “Think about how stupid the average person is, and then realize that half of 'em are stupider than that.” -George Carlin

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    Quote Originally Posted by j2k4 View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Seedler View Post
    Long story short:

    I have a GF that I've dated for a year, currently I'm in university and she's still in last year of high school. We were really close back then, but now the distance is getting to me. She's still really attached to me, so I don't want to break her heart as I still have some affection for her. However, recently I've met another girl who just drives me crazy, everything I ever want etcetc. Basically I'm infatuated with this new girl. I really don't know what to do, I try to do the right thing and forget about her, but I just can't and it's driving me insane.

    What should I do?
    You are afflicting both.

    Leave them (as well as all other women) alone.
    :earl:

    You should get straight to the point more often, it's very effective

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seedler View Post
    Long story short:

    I have a GF that I've dated for a year, currently I'm in university and she's still in last year of high school. We were really close back then, but now the distance is getting to me. She's still really attached to me, so I don't want to break her heart as I still have some affection for her. However, recently I've met another girl who just drives me crazy, everything I ever want etcetc. Basically I'm infatuated with this new girl. I really don't know what to do, I try to do the right thing and forget about her, but I just can't and it's driving me insane.

    What should I do?
    keep em' both....what are you thinking?
    You just keep pushing. You just keep pushing. I made every mistake that could be made. But I just kept pushing..... Descartes

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    its all about how selfish you can get ...

    you know what .. if you were in love with your soon to be ex girl friend, you wouldnt even think about the second one ..

    Last edited by anoneemuse; 11-02-2008 at 06:16 PM.

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    Save yourself "a lot of grief / lying / getting caught" by just being honest with your girl friend. If you found somebody else, then its time to move on.




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    I agree with most of the posts here, just be straight up it's the only way out and you have someone to actually to talk to

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    i think by now he would have taken care of some issue like that

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