
Originally Posted by
sez
Hi mbm,long time no chat

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Well i'll speak assuming that you are responsible for his fsc membership.In logic they'll say that its ok then for us to assume that perhaps your views on him are subjective,no?.
Personally I don't have a problem with him nor do I care if someone sees the good in inviting him.But one thing that has thrown me off about all this is the utter dishonesty and the fact that he refuses to acknowledge it.
Why wouldn't he have just said from the onset that I want to be on ftn because I don't know why I want to be on ftn?
It would have been ridiculous but at least it would have saved him the lies.
Hi sez!
Sorry I'm a bit late in responding to this, but I am waking from a VERY restful night of sleep involving Ambien and Lunesta. I am writing this through one very grog filled head...
I can see why someone would see me as a champion of kool. And even, perhaps, the one who invited him on FSC. Actually, I had nothing to do with the first. I read the thread, but only participated in response to a funny comment made by KushBlow...
During the FSC thread, I remained neutral- if not disinterested.
As I mentioned in my last post (the one requesting kool's reopening of the thread), I find this personally interesting. There are many of us who are (dare I say) trusted, or at least known in the community who refrain from "having a look around" or trying new "elite sites" because we don't want to face such a long, drawn out trial (for a lack of a better word, but I think it is fairly accurate).
The invite process becomes a popularity contest or a reasoning skills challenge, rather than a security device or quality filter.
kool seems like a good guy and I appreciate his efforts on this site and FSC. He has involved himself in a lot of the different clubs there and has brought some new life. However, I do not know him. He is not on my friend's lists (yet) and we have only crossed posts occasionally on FSC.
He is, however, in the exact same spot I would find myself in if I got so "bold" as to request FTN. I have pondered this for a while now. Instead of getting a quick reply that says, "Welcome, I hope you enjoy the site!" there would be 5+ pages of questions, drama, and suspicions. And why? kool and I show no risk to the site in any way. We are contributors, are usually friendly (although I still hate that BrianH guy...Grrrr!), and bring something to the table. Neither of us engage in any of the BT taboos- trading, buying/selling, etc.
So I want to know (and this is why I asked for the thread to be reopened) what is it that "the jury" is hoping to accomplish by keeping suitable members out of desirable sites? There is no real shortage of space. The servers can handle at least one or two more of us. Heck, we can even sit in the living room with a folding card table for Thanksgiving dinner.
Honestly, there is no such thing as scarcity here. Why look for reasons to exclude "members in good standing"?
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