You should be able to set your email and it appears youve done that now. The private message that was sent to you is autogenerated and quite simple to follow. The issue with bad emails is it strains the server for nothing which is why your notified of it. Its likely you had some type of notification on. It could be thread subscription or for private messages perhaps. When those started bouncing you were notified. We also send emails to some inactive members on the site. If you have issue with this simply change your settings not to recieve any of these...
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