FtN Invite

[Burnsy]

I dont have like 5000s posts cos i don't go around trolling and saying random shit thats unrelated to othere ppl posts like your self

Now that's a very good point really... if certain sections of the forums on this site were removed as counting towards post count... it would be interesting to see how many people's post count were actually quality as opposed to quantity

I 've never been asked about a trade even once .Go figure.

Sorry that was one of those useless ,increase my post count posts wasn't it?

There you go Idol... just bumping that post count... tsk, tsk...

True but in light of a PM NightAss sent me could evryone please try to keep the posts here as productive as possible and the insults to a minimum.
He really didn't come here looking for a fight and a little respect in this particular case might go a long way.
Thanks( or not).

Dunno who NightAss is, but either way... no-one really deserves being flamed for asking for what a lot of us would really like... doesn't matter what trackers the guy is on or not... he has a wish, made a request... and is getting shit for it... yeah OK, maybe there are others who have made more posts... but hey... you can't fault a guy for asking

Why so agressive....?

Weird, I didn't read anything aggressive here at all... defensive maybe... but can you blame the OP? I wonder if any one of the folks giving him a hard time actually have FTN, and can afford to 'dish it out'?

At the end of the day, you can only ask, usually the worst that can happen is for someone to say no... seemingly not in this case tho... good luck dude they can be pretty unforgiving round these parts at times

[7th]

Why so agressive....?

Weird, I didn't read anything aggressive here at all...

and with that I see that your definition of what is aggressive and what is not is totally different than mine... I respect that

[Burnsy]

Weird, I didn't read anything aggressive here at all...

and with that I see that your definition of what is aggressive and what is not is totally different than mine... I respect that

Well... you cut out the latter part of what I posted...

I said I could easily see how it could be perceived as defensive, but I personally didn't read into it as being aggressive

You are 100% correct however in that we can easily read different things from a few lines of text...

[NightAss]

wow thank you Burnsy

Burnsy your like a forum jedi

I am going to wish you Good Luck, by just looking at your username

lol thanks man been useing it ever sis i started useing the net
use to be NightAssassin then NightAss and now sum times Night or NA and theres my life story

[7th]

and with that I see that your definition of what is aggressive and what is not is totally different than mine... I respect that

Well... you cut out the latter part of what I posted...

I said I could easily see how it could be perceived as defensive, but I personally didn't read into it as being aggressive

You are 100% correct however in that we can easily read different things from a few lines of text...

I don't like doing that but I'll point out something here, so you have "just one" small example of what I see as aggressive (nothing personal Night hehe)

"well it shows I been in to fileshareing p2p for a long time" - not aggressive

"well it shows I been in to fileshareing p2p befor you even new how to copy a floppy disk" - uuuhhhhhhh... unnecessarily aggressive

[IdolEyes787]

Some people , especially those not comfortable with /confident in expressing themselves , ofttimes respond to criticism with hostility.I honestly don't believe NightAss is innately a "bad " guy like some people here, I think he's just had it tough at some point in his life and uses the hostility as a defense mechanism.
I also think that if you treat him respectfully he will do the same to you.

People should consider when it's appropriate to "turn the screws" and when their reflexive criticisms does more ( real) harm than good.

[Burnsy]

I don't like doing that but I'll point out something here, so you have "just one" small example of what I see as aggressive (nothing personal Night hehe)

"well it shows I been in to fileshareing p2p for a long time" - not aggressive

"well it shows I been in to fileshareing p2p befor you even new how to copy a floppy disk" - uuuhhhhhhh... unnecessarily aggressive

Cheers for your reply 7th

Again, I can only say it must come down to personal opinion/interpretation. What you see as unnecessarily aggressive... I could just as easily read as a statement of fact... or even as an attempt at humour.

Put back into the context of the OP's response, then again I only take it as being defensive if anything, and I don't really blame the OP. To me an aggressive response is a lot of shouting/swearing and personal attack on someone/some person... but we're all different... would be boring really if we weren't

[7th]

I don't "judge" him as being a person neither... the true is that we do have this tendency of being more offensive when responding to criticisms or offenses.

I just think it's not the best way to go because it always turns out to be a real snowball with no end...

What I saw here was a clean account of 2005 "starting" to be deteriorated without real purpose. My first post here at FST was to ask for an invite for what people call level 4 tracker... I couldn't expect anything but some aggressive posts from users trying to flame my thread... that's plain normal and totally expected, so you better be prepared...

and one side note: being offensive to newcomers is not bad at all. It's just a way to check/know who's the newcomer and how he/she handles some discussions and it can even turns to be good and favorable to the OP...

another side note: gosh, I have to find a way to improve my English =/

[Burnsy]

another side note: gosh, I have to find a way to improve my English =/

Your English is very, very good

A hell of a lot better than my Portugese anyway (which is completely non-existant btw) assuming of course you are indeed Brazillian...

But anyway... I think we're hijacking the OP's thread here... soz NightAss, good luck with your request

[7th]

I don't like doing that but I'll point out something here, so you have "just one" small example of what I see as aggressive (nothing personal Night hehe)

"well it shows I been in to fileshareing p2p for a long time" - not aggressive

"well it shows I been in to fileshareing p2p befor you even new how to copy a floppy disk" - uuuhhhhhhh... unnecessarily aggressive

Cheers for your reply 7th

Again, I can only say it must come down to personal opinion/interpretation. What you see as unnecessarily aggressive... I could just as easily read as a statement of fact... or even as an attempt at humour.

Put back into the context of the OP's response, then again I only take it as being defensive if anything, and I don't really blame the OP. To me an aggressive response is a lot of shouting/swearing and personal attack on someone/some person... but we're all different... would be boring really if we weren't

yes, so it seems we are understood here hehe... now, do you wanna be my friend?
just kidding man

another side note: gosh, I have to find a way to improve my English =/

But anyway... I think we're hijacking the OP's thread here...

LOL that's totally true let's stop all of this now!
and thanks for the compliment
e eu sou brasileiro sim e meu português é muito melhor, óbvio, que meu inglês que eu nem acho tão ruim, mas ainda é ruim se comparado com o inglês que gostaria de ter