No one labeled you a "dirty trader" ( OK maybe polarbear) .The point that was attempted to be made is that you probably won't have much luck particpating the request section if you also participate in the trade one, simply because people can't be sure if the invites are actually going to be used by you or if they are totally wasting them and it will just be used as trade bait.
There is also of course the point that on most sites inviting a known trader will get you disabled.
Now if you want to listen to some advice that comes with spending too much time here

then indiscriminate giveaways trying to prove you are a "good guy" probably aren't going to get you any closer to CHDbits either.
Just make an honest request showing any expertise involving HD that you have and include anything that you think is pertinent to that request( excluding private details of course) .
If no one fills the request but offers what they think is a good alternative then be gracious and maybe accept.It may not be CHDbits but it might turn out to be every bit as good ( for you at least)for all intents and purposes and then you won't have to waste a lot more time searching for something you might never find.
Now I hope you don't offense at this post as well because believe it or not I am only trying to help you ( both get into CHDbits and stay out of trouble).
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