I was gonna say some backcountry like afghanistan/pakistan/turkey or basically any muslim state on the planet.
I totally praise you for having a child out of wed lock,The main thing is its healthy and you 2 are happy.
I know a few couple who have children and they basically hate them,shout at them all day long ,even in the streets while shopping.
Getting married can be fine for some but its not essential, If you are happy with who you are with then great, either get married or carry on as you are, Its no big deal.
Problems start when peer pressure starts forcing its way into your perfect world.
Just sit back and enjoy-f@ck what everyone else wants.
PAIN is just WEAKNESS leaving the body
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