Home wrecker advice.

[NotLettingItGo]

Door mat.

BTW, why did you think it a good idea to get emotionally involved with another woman when you are married with kids and guinea pigs?

Us normal people do that... we get emotionally involved with people... we call them friends. In fact right at this point in time, I'm emotionally involved with several women... although I'll admit none of them are as close to me as this particular woman was, and so my emotional involvement with any of them isn't as close either.... and it never will be. I'd have to be completely stupid to assume they're anymore trustworthy than she was. As far as I'm concerned now, all women are potential liars who are just out to make themselves feel good, and who are willing to fuck around with any mans life to do so...

I've covered all of this multiple times already... it's become exceptionally boring... and whilst I accept that you are an exceptionally dull individual who needs to have the same information given to you at least 20+ times before it sinks in, I've had enough of explaining it.

Goodnight dullard.

[mjmacky]

I was waiting for friends outside King's Cross rail station last night reading this and that last bit made me lol, which given how I was dressed frightened kerb crawlers just enough to give me a wide berth, so thanks for that.

Anyway, it's a real shame you were so indiscreet about your marital status, because women really really like anally retentive workaholic sociopaths who never shut up. If only you hadn't admitted you were married you'd have had on your hands a very moist lounge indeed. It's definitely sociopathy, not psychopathy, btw:

http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html

Being courteous and charming in social situations is tiring, but you can walk away at the end of the day with a sneer: all you had to do was talk about them and their lives for a couple of hours and now they think you're great. And they probably never asked one question about you, because people are ultimately self serving arseholes, they like you because you made them feel good about themselves. People are so dumb and easy to control, right? That's ultimately what your form of charm is: a control mechanism. Or something else

When I look at that, I feel like I could say yes to both, not being completely either of them. I had to read up and identify the differences between psychopaths and sociopaths, and so I have a lingering interpretation that dictates how I evaluate mine or someone else's alignment. That major thing I remember is that there isn't an agreed upon standard that separates the two. I always associate them with these archetypes: psychopaths can fit in, and will do it when it suits them; sociopaths cannot or will not fit in. It's oversimplified, but it's the simple ideas that we use to maintain some recollection of defined terms outside of our fields of specialty.

Sure, charm is useful as a control mechanism... but I'd say my use of it has been more or less for sport. I have a tendency to test waters and push buttons, trying to figure out the POV people hide. Naturally, most can become pretty irritated, or at least annoyed. I guess at some point, I learned how to have my cake and eat it to, since uneaten cake is worthless. The more I work on people's nerves, the easier it is to bring find myself back into good graces. The experience is similar to honing your skill at a video game, just a very complex one. I'm a bit tired and I think this last paragraph might not be making too much sense.

At least I saved my previous post with something that gave a good laugh, but with that starting point I'll have to go 1 for 2. I mostly wanted to talk about personality disorders and find out if I've erred in the interpretations I had.

[Squeamous]

Nicely done I always thought psychopathy differed from sociopathy by being maliciously controlling and lacking in empathy for pleasure and sport rather than personal gain. Psychopaths take pleasure in causing distress, sociopaths just don't care if they do as long as their personal goal is reached.I don't really understand the rest of what you said. Were you drunk/on crack when you wrote it?

[megabyteme]

Door mat.

BTW, why did you think it a good idea to get emotionally involved with another woman when you are married with kids and guinea pigs?

Us normal people do that... we get emotionally involved with people... we call them friends.

Nobody gets as bent out of shape/psychotic/misogynist over being lied to by a friend. You wanted more. Not a single person here buys your story.

Now, remember when I narrowed down the list of things you have in your life to, "Linux"? Well, Linux doesn't love you, either. Linux is just using you to get ported. Once Linux gets what she wants, consider yourself kicked to the curb. Again.

[NotLettingItGo]

Nobody gets as bent out of shape/psychotic/misogynist over being lied to by a friend. You wanted more. Not a single person here buys your story.

And I'm meant to care what anyone here thinks, am I?

Whilst you may not give a toss when someone you have placed complete trust in, respected, and been thoughtful and considerate too, fucks you over completely by doing the things that they know will be most offensive to you. I do, and I'm entitled too. What I wanted was for her to be honest, it was the only thing I ever required from/of her, and she knew that. Not only was she dishonest, she did it in a particularly offensive fashion.

Now, remember when I narrowed down the list of things you have in your life to, "Linux"? Well, Linux doesn't love you, either. Linux is just using you to get ported. Once Linux gets what she wants, consider yourself kicked to the curb. Again.

Linux is just lines of code... it can't feel anything. It certainly can't be a friend.

[megabyteme]

Linux is just lines of code... it can't feel anything. It certainly can't be a friend.

[Artemis]

Actually I've been wondering for awhile, the Linux port, you are compiling the kernel for what processor/hardware exactly ? Is it a specifice distro you are porting to non-native hardware since there is a distro out there in the repositories for everything later than the jacquard loom ?

[NotLettingItGo]

One of the projects is to port a specific distro to a hardware platform it doesn't currently support (PPC), another is to port to a new specific (already supported, at least in generic terms) hardware platform (ARM), yet another is to port the entire distro to uClibc. All three being interrelated to some degree and on some levels.

Yes there's Debian, and Debian, and Debian... not forgetting the Debian derived distros... nothing wrong with Debian... but IMO there are better distros, it would be nice to have them running natively.

[OlegL]

OP, as far as I understood from your post, some girl tried to break up your relationship with your girlfriend. Of course, what she tried to do was wrong, so you should try talking to her about it and you should try explaining to her that what she did was wrong. I assume she's not even 20 or in her early 20s, so it's possible she's still immature as a person and when she does something bad, she doesn't fully realize it. That's why you shouldn't feel that you need revenge. Of course, I don't really know well any of you, so it's possible I am giving you a wrong advice.

[Artemis]

OP, as far as I understood from your post, some girl tried to break up your relationship with your girlfriend. Of course, what she tried to do was wrong, so you should try talking to her about it and you should try explaining to her that what she did was wrong. I assume she's not even 20 or in her early 20s, so it's possible she's still immature as a person and when she does something bad, she doesn't fully realize it. That's why you shouldn't feel that you need revenge. Of course, I don't really know well any of you, so it's possible I am giving you a wrong advice.

Well that's new, the lonely lovelorn loser giving relationship advice, Darthy you should defo listen to this guy