Home wrecker advice.

**1000possibleclaws** · 06-29-2011, 02:31 AM

Similar situation has happened to me with a close female friend but in high school when relationships weren't serious. I don't really understand why you want to get revenge for this, since your gf is ok with it and this girl is your friend. She's just jealous of you, that is all.. You're probably better off than her if she's trying these things, isn't that good enough? Stop being her friend if this bothers you so much, but I would leave it at that because messing with peoples lives is pretty low especially if they are down already.

**kallieb** · 06-29-2011, 03:38 AM

Sweet Jesus .........

The triumvirate posting here should have the nicks: dumb, dumber and dumbest. Reading and trying to understand the reasoning in their respective posts/exchanges is is as about as much fun as drilling needles through my eyes. Make it stop... please... ot at least take a break.

**Quarterquack** · 06-29-2011, 04:55 AM

Originally Posted by Squeamous

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So, yes on the cheating, I take it, then?

And it isn't my bloody fault you've got as much air in your head as a few dozen inflated beachballs. I'm still right about the facts I quoted. Your failure to grasp the difference between coding and non-coding regions and the involvement of repetitive segments with both astounds me. What lab is it that you work at, again?

Originally Posted by 1000possibleclaws

Similar situation has happened to me with a close female friend but in high school when relationships weren't serious. I don't really understand why you want to get revenge for this, since your gf is ok with it and this girl is your friend. She's just jealous of you, that is all.. You're probably better off than her if she's trying these things, isn't that good enough? Stop being her friend if this bothers you so much, but I would leave it at that because messing with peoples lives is pretty low especially if they are down already.

Yeah, after taking a few hours to myself today, listening to some music, watching some stand-ups I did eventually calm down and come back to my senses. I largely agree with you. I've come to the resolution that I'll reserve myself and ignore the entire ordeal. If she does, however, decide to step into my life again after I try to remove her, then she will hear a piece of my mind. Not sooner, however.

Originally Posted by kallieb

Sweet Jesus .........

The triumvirate posting here should have the nicks: dumb, dumber and dumbest. Reading and trying to understand the reasoning in their respective posts/exchanges is is as about as much fun as drilling needles through my eyes. Make it stop... please... ot at least take a break.

The thread was about wimmin (or at least I think so). What with them getting sand in their vaginas and all I would assume this thread was like a honeypot.

**Mr. Mulder** · 06-29-2011, 07:44 AM

i agree with kallie we should all just take our fucking tops off and smear feces on our chests.

**NotLettingItGo** · 06-29-2011, 08:00 AM

Originally Posted by 1000possibleclaws

...I would leave it at that because messing with peoples lives is pretty low ...

Whilst I agree with that completely, she should have considered that before she messed with his life.

**NotLettingItGo** · 06-29-2011, 08:03 AM

Originally Posted by kallieb

Sweet Jesus .........

The triumvirate posting here should have the nicks: dumb, dumber and dumbest. Reading and trying to understand the reasoning in their respective posts/exchanges is is as about as much fun as drilling needles through my eyes. Make it stop... please... ot at least take a break.

Oh! The reasoning is simple... this belief that women have, that they've a right to fuck around with mens lives and then expect, and demand that those same men should respect them, and treat them decently... it doesn't stand scrutiny in the light of day. If women believe they can fuck around with mens lives, they should expect men to fuck around with their lives.

**1000possibleclaws** · 06-29-2011, 08:38 AM

Originally Posted by rejectOfAllah

Originally Posted by 1000possibleclaws

...I would leave it at that because messing with peoples lives is pretty low ...

Whilst I agree with that completely, she should have considered that before she messed with his life.

Well what does hurting a good friend of his accomplish? Satisfaction? I doubt it. He'll be down a friend he might want in the future and he probably won't feel that great about it either cause she was a close friend. If there's a lesson to be learned it's not to trust this girl with anything meaningful and not to introduce her to any future girlfriends.

**NotLettingItGo** · 06-29-2011, 09:08 AM

Originally Posted by 1000possibleclaws

Well what does hurting a good friend of his accomplish? Satisfaction? I doubt it. He'll be down a friend he might want in the future and he probably won't feel that great about it either cause she was a close friend. If there's a lesson to be learned it's not to trust this girl with anything meaningful and not to introduce her to any future girlfriends.

Last night I had the 'sad little dullard' saying I'd been 'scorned'. He couldn't be further from the truth. I wasn't scorned at all. I had no claim to the woman in question, other than my belief that we shared a very close friendship. That was what she had led me to believe she felt. It's what I felt. What it really was was just a simple manipulation of someone who was willing to trust her. My absolute trust in this woman was betrayed in everyway possible, and not only that but in ways which she knew beyond any doubt would cause me the greatest offense and hurt that it was possible to cause me...

That is what this kind of thing is about... betrayal of trust... anyone who claims to be your friend, whilst betraying your trust, isn't your friend at all... so even if he did do something to her... he can't lose a friend, because her betrayal of his trust proves beyond any doubt she isn't his friend. She sees him as something she can manipulate... she is manipulating his life to try and make it suit her...

I'm afraid most women are capable of behaving this way towards men... I'm afraid far more women behave this way than most men would ever believe... they have shared belief in their right to behave this way towards men. They also believe that as it is their 'right' to behave this way towards men, that men have no option other than to accept women behaving this way. That no man has a right to treat a woman this way.

I'm afraid that in the cold light of day, that's just dumb... if you believe you can treat someone with utter contempt, and manipulate their thoughts and feelings to suit you... then 1) you're not their friend 2) you're a pretty low life piece of scum 3) you've no right to demand that they should give a fuck about you or anything you think or feel 4) you've no grounds at all if in the future some low life piece of scum treats you in the same way... someone like me for example.

There are side effects of treating people this way as well... if it's done often enough to one victim... he's very likely to become just like me, a complete and utter cunt, who sees women as nothing more than sacks of meat to use...

And on that note I shall bid you all farewell for a bit... I'm away to find myself a sack of meat to use again.