The Gay Beard Club

**NotLettingItGo** · 12-24-2011, 08:55 PM

Originally Posted by chavis

I'm quoting that to keep it, Dave.

Off to do what proper fathers do on Christmas Eve. What are you doing tonight, Dave?

As of 00.00 hours on the 25th December 2011, there will come into effect a unilateral cessation of hostilities which will extend for the next 24 hours.

Merry Christmas to you all.

I'm sitting here waiting for my two youngest to go off to sleep.

Merrry Christmas chavis, I hope it's good for you and yours.

**NotLettingItGo** · 12-24-2011, 08:56 PM

Originally Posted by Alien5

Merry Christmas saint challice

In her work, if you want more details about that, you'll need to ask her. I haven't revealed any of her personal details, and I'm not about to start.

**Alien5** · 12-24-2011, 09:10 PM

You said She manipulated your thoughts with lies.

Is Mind control similar to brainwashing or not?

Did you know she had this outstanding ability to control you or did you find this out during the Brain/Mind Control session/s.

You said you trusted her, what did she do to make you loose trust?

**NotLettingItGo** · 12-24-2011, 10:11 PM

Originally Posted by Alien5

You said She manipulated your thoughts with lies.

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You said you trusted her, what did she do to make you loose trust?

Oh it was an entire sequence.

It started with her deciding how she would use me, without any kind of thought or consideration for how I would feel or what I would think about that. Followed by her contradicting one of her lies. When challenged about that (admittedly I didn't handle that particularly well, but that's nothing new for me) she then showed the true depth of her contempt for me, and more lies unravelled. Finally you reach the point of understanding that the vast majority had to have been lies. Otherwise none of the reaction to being challenged makes sense. It's all fairly irrelevant at this point (it has been for months). As I've said before she showed complete and utter contempt for me, and my thoughts and feelings, and that's all there is too it really. My friendship was something she didn't value or respect.

The most amusing thing about the reaction of the mentalists here to my knocking on her door is their expectation that I should respect her thoughts and feelings, after she shat all over mine. That and the fact that they're not clever enough to put two and two together and be able to work out for themselves, that given that I'd already pointed out to her (via PM) that she should stay completely away from me here (this being the only site where we both are members). That the only way I could have challenged her again here was to out her on the board, and I obviously wasn't going to do that. Still that's not a problem anymore, and as long as she stays completely away from me, so I shall stay completely away from her.

I'm still sitting here smiling about chavis and his quoting my earlier post to you. Cause like I've said all of those things before, but suddenly he has to preserve it.

**Alien5** · 12-24-2011, 10:22 PM

Yes it's more of a immature public execution scenario in here most days rather than a sensible discussion between adults about how shit life can be.

If ever we fall out over something you have my permission to post an extremely funny old holiday photo of me with a cute baby elephant from 1982.

If you were here first then I would stay but if she was here first then i would post pics of her naked ftw.

**Quarterquack** · 12-25-2011, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by rejectOfAllah

Oh! I love her (as a friend), she is a charming, intelligent (as in she can easily piss all over the mentalists here in the intelligence stakes), exceptionally talented, and attractive. However I won't have her in my life anymore, she has this thing with lying to people, to manipulate what they think and feel. Why on earth she does that I don't know, she certainly doesn't need to, but hey-ho, we're all different and that's who she has chosen to be.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you're nowhere near being intelligent enough for her. You need to match wits in a couple, have a tug back and forth. It's pretty apparent from your few posts around here that she can run circles around you, and perhaps she did.
This isn't personal. I just see you're forthcoming with sincerity, so I thought I'd shoot you some of the same right back at you.

**NotLettingItGo** · 12-25-2011, 12:21 PM

Originally Posted by Darth Rings

Don't take this the wrong way, but you're nowhere near being intelligent enough for her. You need to match wits in a couple, have a tug back and forth. It's pretty apparent from your few posts around here that she can run circles around you, and perhaps she did.
This isn't personal. I just see you're forthcoming with sincerity, so I thought I'd shoot you some of the same right back at you.

I don't take that the wrong way at all, although I disagree with your opinion of my comparable intelligence. I accept though that you don't see that round here, because that's not what I do on this board. This is just a place where I come to speel shite.

There was no question of us being a couple, what I thought we were was friends, not your average friendship where you like the other person, but one of those rather special friendships where you find someone whom you trust completely, someone who trusts you in the same way. Someone you would look after and out for. That was what she led me to believe she thought we had, and its what I felt we had. I am confident I lived upto my end of that deal. For example, I sat next to her in a pub listening to her concerns about finding herself another man, and gave her my opinions about that. None of which were about her being with me. That was of course when I thought we had that kind of friendship, which it turned out wasn't what it was at all.

None of that is really of any relevance, the lesson is that I cannot trust women. Not because they're all dishonest, cause obviously there are some who wouldn't treat me as she did. But because my own damned judgement of women is so flawed. That's how this entire fucking mess came about, because I was stupid enough to place my trust in someone whom I completely misjudged.