
Originally Posted by
mjmacky
Hiding the child from the world is not as effective as framing a context for them. I grew up under two very different parenting styles. My father forbade everything and discussed nothing. My mother, on the other hand permitted almost everything and the dialog was open. My father was also an asshole that turned me onto thoughts of suicide and broke my ability to be socially comfortable. After my mother's cancer went into remission, I started living with her again, and I was able to recover from most of the trauma in an unfettered environment. What I learned from all this is that the external impersonal shit in the world plays an insignificant role in development. Any real effects will be imparted by relationships with family and friends.
In short, it really doesn't matter what a child witnesses outside of the home, for its their home environment that will shape them.
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