
Originally Posted by
chavis
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What?
I have publicly apologized, and am willing to do so privately as well but Oleg refuses to talk to me in private so I've shrugged the matter off. Should he ever come around to wanting the latter, I'll deliver it as well. If he continues to regard me as an idiot or a creep then I'm giving him the peace of mind of believing as much, en fin.
I never got a "degree" for psychological analysis, and have no idea where you came to the conclusion as such, nor did I ever "bully" Oleg. In most cases I completely ignored him, which spurred a healthy amount of threads or posts asking me why I said things I did, which were met with nothing but even more silence. If you're going to suggest that I was employing a passive aggressive method of bullying, well, you're as wrong as can be, as I pretty much behaved consistently with the beliefs I held at the time of. Pretty much everybody had a go or a snide remark every now and again about Oleg, and I believe that I didn't target him anymore than anybody else did - in fact, before converting to the "Oleg is a troll" camp, I was as good a friend as possible to him, something he had difficulty finding in almost all the regulars here within his first few days. The only thing worth apologizing for is any excess stress I have caused, and that I have, on both accounts.
As for the matter of your daughter: I'm not apologizing for something I didn't do. Note that I've handled the topic of your daughter with the utmost respect. I've complimented her literature and treated her verbally and hypothetically as if she were a member of this board with all due pleasantry (the same given to MBM's son and Idol's mother). What you could possibly want an apology for is beyond me. If it's about that one thread where you had a go at my Rheumatoid/Reynaud's, and then acknowledged that the way you post is meant to instigate the alternate party, well then, I must have taken your "wit" for something it isn't.
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