MIT and the US of A.

[NotLettingItGo]

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[mjmacky]

But she did use me, she did lie to me, and she did change me. If you don't like the man I am I don't care, anymore than I care if she likes the man she created. We are all the products of our experiences, and so I am the product of mine. Her refusal to accept that she (and her friends) created me is quite entertaining though, at least it entertains me.

So basically, you want us to adopt the viewpoint that you're such a weak personality, such a dearth of character, self-respect, pride, intuition, and grit, that you had no hand in the shaping of your wet ecru clayform? It's one of your stronger arguments, but I'm not quite yet convinced.

[Artemis]

I'll let you in on a secret of mine MBM.

My usefulness as a slab of meat became apparent the moment she left her husband, she had decided that she would continue to use me to make herself feel good (everything will contunue as it is (her words)) after she left him. However I objected to the thought of her unilaterally deciding that she could use me to make herself feel good whilst going off out looking for a man to replace me. Someone she could have a proper relationship with. As I pointed out to her at the time, that wasn't on, and any man she did start seeing wouldn't be happy about that. I've said before about how it was me who told her that she couldn't continue to have close the intimate relationship she had with me anymore... well that was why. That was also when it became apparent that if I wasn't going to be providing her with what she had decided she would use me for, then I was of no use to her anymore... this was a woman who claimed to care about me.

And the secret... if I hadn't of sat in my car and supported what her best friend had advised her to do (leave her husband)... I would probably have continued to be used by her for fuck knows how many years... all whilst she never actually gave any kind of toss about me... as long as I was providing what she had decided I would provide to her.

Now don't take my word... go ask her... she's your friend. Then once you have you can stop throwing shit at me constantly.

I'll say it again, ffs grow a pair, we all have had relationships fail, you are the only whiney bitch going on and on and on about something that is over, I don't care about who did what, I don't care that you have been hurt and changed and are bitter. I care that you are shitting all over this board with this endless repetition of a condition of life, a part of normal human interaction, something we all go through. Stop being a big fucking girl !!!!!!!

[NotLettingItGo]

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[megabyteme]

She isn't evil.

You have been laughing at my expense for months MBM, even encouraging he to join in which she did with gay abandon.

She didn't ruin my marriage, it was fucked long before I met her.

But she did use me, she did lie to me, and she did change me. If you don't like the man I am I don't care, anymore than I care if she likes the man she created. We are all the products of our experiences, and so I am the product of mine. Her refusal to accept that she (and her friends) created me is quite entertaining though, at least it entertains me.

I lack a word for something literally beyond pathetic, but you are that. You are beyond words pathetic.

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[megabyteme]

So basically, you want us to adopt the viewpoint that you're such a weak personality, such a dearth of character, self-respect, pride, intuition, and grit, that you had no hand in the shaping of your wet ecru clayform? It's one of your stronger arguments, but I'm not quite yet convinced.

In her character assassignation of me she referred to me being banned from websites... actually I was only ever banned from one.

It was one her friend owned.
I had left the board multiple times due to being verbally abused by her friend, but she talked me back into joining more than once.
I was banned because I pointed out that they had banned another man for a lie which exactly mirrored the lie one of her friend said about me... yeah I know I'm a naive twat. Far to trusting of other people...

Anyway, long story short the abuse of her friends continued after I had initiated my own ban.
She leapt to defend her friends right to slag me off all over the internet at every available chance.

Try being a person who is verbally abused for five years, only to find out that the person who talked you into going backl to get more abuse off of her friends was really opnly doing it for the laughs it was providing her with... as long as she was getting what she wanted she would say anything... that she never really gave any kind of fuck about you at all... it was all just about her.

See if after enduring five years of shit, much akin (OK it was much more nasty to be honest) to the kind of abuse her friends here have been slinging at me for a few months, changes you. I suspect it would. The culminating (and therefore final) influence being the complete betrayal of my trust by her.

I'm grateful to the admin/mod team here... on that other board her friend the owner, and her friends the admin team would have all piled in and joined in the abuse of me, as indeed they did whenever they could. Here I have been allowed a free voice to speak the uncomfortable truth, because the accusations of her friends have been held in account of the actual contents of my posts.

Is that the response you are hoping for, you mop? She is still liked here. You've just painted a picture of someone who DESERVES to get used. Who would blame her?

[manker]

Hello manker, hows are things?

Bad, actually.
I went away for the weekend with the missus and got some kind of face infection. I look like Rocky Dennis in the right hand side of my jaw and throat area.

All the painkillers I'm on have made this thread almost indecipherable.
Did you threaten to kill yourself or merely threaten to quit the bored again? I am unsure in this respect.