MIT and the US of A.

[manker]

Interstingly the approaches I would never consider doing are the ones my female friends have told me I should do. I've had advice from women all the way upto going and angrily confronting her... to let her know how I feel... how angry I am... how betrayed I feel, etc. etc.

I'm sure that men and women see these things completely differently. To me as a man that just seems like completely the wrong thing to do.

Wasn't that your express intention when you drove for 3 hours to the other end of the country to get to her.
Rhetoric above, btw. You said it was.

Also, I had no idea you didn't live nearby, I had assumed relative proximity. I don't even want to think about your carbon footprint, fascist.

[NotLettingItGo]

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[manker]

Wasn't that your express intention when you drove for 3 hours to the other end of the country to get to her.
Rhetoric above, btw. You said it was.

Also, I had no idea you didn't live nearby, I had assumed relative proximity. I don't even want to think about your carbon footprint, fascist.

Good god no, I specifically stopped and checked exactly what I was feeling before I knocked her door. I was simply going to ask her to show me a small amount of respect and stop joining in with you all laughing at me. Them posts I referred to her making. From where I'm sitting it's not right for her to be laughing at me, when she is the creator of all of this, and yes I know that sounds like me blaming her again, but there's no way of putting it which doesn't sound like that. I know it was my own naiviety which allowed her to get away with what she did. All she really did was exercise selfishness, and we're all capable of that. I've just never realised or felt that degree of selfishness myself... but I'm changing that, putting myself and what I want first as much as possible now.

If I'd have stood there before her in angry intimidatory mode, I would have expected her to slam the door in my face, and probably to call the police. I'm a fairly big bloke, that's not the way to present yourself to anyone, man or woman.

Ehh, I duno. You sound sincere enough.
I got the impression when you said that you were going to tell her what you thought of her, some anger would have been involved. Given your previous.

btw, I just re-read the bit of the thread where you said it and it seems as if you got there and back in 2 hours

[NotLettingItGo]

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[Squeamous]

Same thing
don't make me fuck some science into you.

Not with AIDS in your mouth you don't!

and also, I'm not married.
Why does everyone assume so. It must be because what with the beard and the witty insouciance I carry with me at all times, people assume I've been ensnared by a devious female.

No, it's because you always talk about your girlfriends with the careworn manner of a man who has lost the will to live.

[manker]

Ehh, I duno. You sound sincere enough.
I got the impression when you said that you were going to tell her what you thought of her, some anger would have been involved. Given your previous.

btw, I just re-read the bit of the thread where you said it and it seems as if you got there and back in 2 hours

I work across that side of the country an awful lot, I was stopping in a hotel that night. Oh! And the second post was made on a mobile, so it was made immediately after I had actually knocked on her door. That was how our 'friendship' was possible in the first place. I have several friends over that side of the country, they all insist on taking the piss out of me about all of this as well. One of them even takes the piss by telling me she reads the local paper to check if I've been arrested for doing something about this.

I don't suppose this will make much sense to you, but there are members here to whom it will. I was in the Army, I hurt people, badly hurt people in that job. One of the effects that has upon most blokes who have done that, is it makes you realise that hurting anyone is something you really... and I can't stress that really enough... don't ever want to do again.

On top of that there's the small factor of me caring about her... as friends go I was stupid enough to allow her closer to me than I had ever allowed anyone... emotionally closer. She made it to the top of my list of close friends, that's why what happened hurts so much and why I will never be able to stop caring for her, even if she never cared for me.

Trust me, she is as safe from me, as any person on this planet and I include my kids in that. She knows that, she said it in one of her posts.

That makes sense to me, and I believe you.

You should try posting in this manner more often. Except about other stuff

[manker]

Not with AIDS in your mouth you don't!

and also, I'm not married.
Why does everyone assume so. It must be because what with the beard and the witty insouciance I carry with me at all times, people assume I've been ensnared by a devious female.

No, it's because you always talk about your girlfriends with the careworn manner of a man who has lost the will to live.

There is that

But worry ye not, I won't fuck you with my mouth. I'm with my black brethren on this.

[NotLettingItGo]

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[manker]

Night, dewd.

[Squeamous]

There is that

But worry ye not, I won't fuck you with my mouth. I'm with my black brethren on this.

You're such a catch! So what is it you do exactly that keeps the serial monogamy engine ticking over.