While I'm at it, I just want to say it's extremely selfish of you to expect me to read and appreciate your misdirection, but you refuse to even try indulge mine.
While I'm at it, I just want to say it's extremely selfish of you to expect me to read and appreciate your misdirection, but you refuse to even try indulge mine.
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Pretty sure a substantial amount of misseses would enjoy that picture more than their men. Either way, nice to know that you have your dating sites while Ivana (was it?) has cucumbers. Have you come across the theory yet that she has put on all these personas of dating women on an intranet, including dave, manker and I, all just to slowly drive you into insanity?
I'm talking about another one of our flirt sessions. I hope you know that my pants are really heavy. If we keep dancing for long, they're dropping and not coming back up.
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I've read her some of these correspondences because sometimes she's around when I'm going over them and you know when you have that urge to put another set of eyes on what you're witnessing? Something like that. There's not much wit in her writing style though... so it doesn't work.
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If I've already gotten to the unholieth base with you, what make you of your blog wars with 'ole dave? That's surely evolved into a fantastical love affair. I think you can do without prostituting yourself any longer.
Now, stop painting yourself with a saintly pink brush. Post the 50+ message tango where you end up standing up the dame.
P.S. This thread reminded me of a guy I stumbled across earlier on today, announcing he refuses to be a dating site for mercury dumpers and mercury hunters.
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Although I haven't been in the situation personally, yes, I do know. I can understand the dilemma between figuring out whether the course of conversation is following the script for "Me and You and Everyone we know", or is just a giant misunderstanding. A friend who trolls dating sites on the regular always has me read his hilarities. He even does recruitment. Found a 5th year Psychology course pack of a poor girl. Sent her an e-mail telling her her only method of contact with him is through eHarmony. Heartless bastard.
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I'll post the last message from one of them, which occurred after I described my situation with Ivana. Supposedly, I was not going to be hooking up with this girl (in any social context, so I meant that generally) because she had been recently engaged.
She then deleted her account and I never heard from her again neither through text nor email. In the end I decided she talked about her "fiancee" too much anyway and I wrote the whole thing off. Anyways, my point in this is that it's really just a lot of text without anything really interesting.Originally Posted by Sara
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I disagree. This girl is pretty interesting. The way she took her time typing naive properly. The fact that she had expressly stated to you that there was to be no hook-up, and yet she used you as an emotional buffer, specifically avoiding contact with anyone in her physical proximity by falling back to taboo dating sites before trouble occurred. The fact that this previous fact suggests she's probably a consistent emotional wreck and the "suck it up" was advice rather than apathy. If for nothing, it's the gems like Sara that make me highly interested in trying out these sites. Not for the laughs but for the personalities.
People trying to find someone who will definitely not care about them, on a site intended for the opposite? You don't say!![]()
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Sometimes you'll find a personality, now you're forcing me to dig up the relevant part of that message.
Sara: I'm wondering .... In the most egotistical sense possible, why do you continue to correspond with me, regardless of my current relationship? Am I honestly that interesting? I apologize, but I am born and raised a Class A suspicious and skeptical individual.
Mary: Well if not anything else, your upfront and candid honesty makes conversation with you interesting, fun. That quip aside, I'd expect the skepticism based on the context, as it would have me just as suspicious. In that regard, I'm glad you asked because explaining it without inquiry would seem kind of odd and out of place.
The reasons why I continue to message you are quite different than when I initiated contact. At first it was just an interesting profile and a cute pic (though I'm admittedly weary of 1 pic profiles, something carried on from a previous acquaintance from years back). It's a bit of self gratification to see if females find me interesting or attractive, thus the probes are sent out to try to validate the strong sense of self-confidence. In reality I tend to believe others don't have a very appealing perception of me due to my intense, frank, and at times caustic personality. I tend to alienate people based on their complete ineptitude at critical thinking and eventual narrow mindedness. Uncharacteristic to my misanthropic ways, I still socialize and talk to new people, always in search of that new perspective.
Still, while continuing our messages, I didn't necessarily have any expectations or angles to work, you are a pleasure to converse with. I am for the most part, a pretty asexual individual, though I'd still have eunuchs and Tesla scoff at my remark. The conversation is what interests me and keeps my lazy ass invested in the effort. After that initial point, you demonstrated, if I can be so cliched, a refreshing outlook, and that's something of value that I'd be hard pressed to dismiss.
So here's to hoping that would make sense, I typed it all out on my phone (kind of limiting my editing capacity). You have to admit if I said all that unprovoked, it would have been quite creepy. Well not that I can claim to be creep-free, I am just able to act with social sensibility when it's worth it.
So now my question for you. Knowing how most guys function on here, are you still going to manage your account given the recent developments? I mean it has to be quite a workload to filter through all the messages, on top of potentially upsetting a jealous fiancee (not that I would assume he is the jealous type, but not knowing anything about him, it's a possibility in my mind). As a follow up to that question, did you have an agenda while talking to me that may no longer be valid? Yikes that sounds a bit confrontational, but I can only assure you it's not... just can't think of another way to word it at the moment and I want to send this out before some unexpected app crash.
Alright, here's to hoping for a reply
Sara: I honestly didn't have any expectations to begin with either, upon initial conversation. Then I began to see some sort of connection, which I am attributing to intellectual conversation. Oh and, of course, my need to have male attention. That sounds horrible, but it's the truth. However, like I am sure I have said countless times, I'm hard pressed to find any male within my age group to carry intellectual conversations without some ulterior motive to get me in bed.
I feel as though I would only continue my account, as I thought about last night, to continue talking to you. Now that, in itself, shocks me. And I feel like continuing a personal reference to you in that matter, as opposed to a general reason, could be misconstrued for a number of reasons. But I'd rather ignore whatever that reason might be, besides my intense love of decent conversation with a member of the opposite sex.
I appreciate the compliments on my interesting something-or-another, but I am wholly confident a multitude of women in our area could be the same as me, if not more interesting.
Does that whole stream of thought answer your question? I honestly wish I could have explained that better, but I am horrid at organizing my thoughts when answering personal questions.
Sara: Also, if given the right circumstances, I most likely would've been attracted to you. I have a strange, masochistic interest in men who are superior to me intellectually. My fiancée is a former med student, who was forced to drop out due to unfortunate financial issues that were out of his control. So, based on his experience in med school, he has more knowledge and skill in the medical field than I do. And that I find incredibly attractive, among other things.
I enjoy intellectually superior men. End of story. I'm sure that's some sort of complex that's deeply rooted in my childhood somewhere. But I avoid psychoanalysis of myself whenever possible.
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