I love FST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Consider it a quest. Find out what you can contribute. Who would be better off with your help? Volunteer somewhere. Help kids learn how to write properly. Share things that you have learned about your disability.
Has school meant nothing to you? Do you still find yourself powerless to help others? Doing for others is what makes us interesting and valuable.
Let me give you some free advice. There are two types of people living in this world; Those that react and those that respond.
Given your background and handicap, you obviously react, yet if you changed your mindset, you could respond instead.
You can have two people who face the very same crisis, and while one will complain about their predicament, the other will use the crisis to spur themselves on to better things.
Do you see yourself as a victim, or do you turn that scenario in to a learning experience and benefit from it.
It is no good moaning to us that you are a 33 year old virgin. You need to do something about it. Using a disability to justify your existence is petty. There are plenty of people who are physically or mentally challenged, yet live full lives. Oscar Pistorious, before he shot his girlfriend, made the headlines by being the faster runner on earth without the benefit of legs. Others who are mentally challenged, are still able to live a reasonably healthy life, even though they have issues.
Instead of bitching about the poor quality of life you lead, try staying off this forum, and actually go out and do something. Yes, you might fail time after time, but there will be times when you succeed, and it is those times that you need to draw on. Some of the greatest inventors failed thousands of times before they finally got it right. If they had your patience, then we would have been deprived their life changing inventions.
So, stop crying about what a rotten life you have, and do something about it. Don't keep throwing spanners in to the works. If you have challenges, rise above them and prove to us and the rest of the world that you actually have a backbone.
Only you can change your life. There is no magic wand we can wave to make you more desirable to the opposite sex. Only you have it in your power to change your own self image. If you believe you can woo a beautiful woman, then it will become reality. Even ugly people find love, often because while their facial features may be undesirable, they have strength of character which others find attractive.
So, stop crying and get out there and get laid. If you do it once, you'll do it time and time again.
Originally Posted by OlegL
Sorry to change the subject but can whoever is charge of the Universe please change the name of the NFL championship from the Superbowl to "A Ginormous Monument to Excessive That Were He Alive Even Louis the XIV Would Be Embarrassed By " to better reflect the facts.
Also could he/she please kill those pre/post/halftime alleged pundits who clearly think this game is tantamount to the Second Coming of Christ ?
Sheesh.
And now back to your regularly scheduled drivel.
Respect my lack of authority.
The word can be made plural, but is less commonly used, it seems.
advice
(ədˈvaɪs)n1. recommendation as to appropriate choice of action; counsel
2. (sometimes plural) formal notification of facts, esp when communicated from a distance
[C13: avis (later advise), via Old French from a Vulgar Latin phrase based on Latin ad to, according to + vīsum view (hence: according toone's view, opinion)]
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