Love Help

**RGX** · 12-08-2003, 09:55 PM

DONT start dropping things in her bag and invading her personal space

**Skweeky** · 12-09-2003, 12:08 AM

yeah, I know you mean well, but I would find it pretty scary if a found a note in my bag with the address of a website dedicated to me

Created by someone I don't know!

**ibelledthecat** · 12-09-2003, 03:25 AM

ok i wont do that again

**SciManAl** · 12-09-2003, 03:49 AM

hehehehe, this has been intresting... In the states this is abit easier... (free speech and all

) man i realize why you ask for help... India is strict as hell.... man be bold at least mayby follow up the note and say something like i was afraid to tell myself, and i find you attractive. then see what happens... if she is mad then get the hell away!!! but it should go well.... how old are you again??? 10th gradeish??? that would be umm 16 or so in america mayby?? hmm... dude good luck though! i have a forien echange student "sis" from india... she always complains about the day she will go back...

Best of wishes to you!

**ibelledthecat** · 12-09-2003, 04:20 AM

Originally posted by SciManAl@9 December 2003 - 03:49
hehehehe, this has been intresting... In the states this is abit easier... (free speech and all ) man i realize why you ask for help... India is strict as hell.... man be bold at least mayby follow up the note and say something like i was afraid to tell myself, and i find you attractive. then see what happens... if she is mad then get the hell away!!! but it should go well.... how old are you again??? 10th gradeish??? that would be umm 16 or so in america mayby?? hmm... dude good luck though! i have a forien echange student "sis" from india... she always complains about the day she will go back...

Best of wishes to you!

thnx for ur support .
i m 14 and will turn 15 on 30th december .

**Alex H** · 12-09-2003, 04:45 AM

Hey, the site is very nice. Here's something to try when you talk to her: be overly embarresed - turn it into a joke. Say "Hi.................um..............how are you?...............Er..............seen any good movies recently?..........uh...........gee I hate homework" or something else lame. Streach it out. She'll know you like her, but that you're shy about it. And because you're joking about it, she gets to have a giggle about it with her friends because you're funny too. So after the conversation she knows:

You like her
You're shy, but you've still got the balls to talk to her
You have a sense of humor

Ok so you're a bit of an idiot too, but you're a brave, funny and interested. The good things make up for the bad ones, and hey, at lease you got to talk to her! (and if you get nervous it doesn't matter cause she knew that aready. She's probably nervous about talking to you too).

Hope that helps....a bit.

**ibelledthecat** · 12-09-2003, 04:53 AM

Originally posted by Alex H@9 December 2003 - 04:45
Hey, the site is very nice. Here's something to try when you talk to her: be overly embarresed - turn it into a joke. Say "Hi.................um..............how are you?...............Er..............seen any good movies recently?..........uh...........gee I hate homework" or something else lame. Streach it out. She'll know you like her, but that you're shy about it. And because you're joking about it, she gets to have a giggle about it with her friends because you're funny too. So after the conversation she knows:

You like her
You're shy, but you've still got the balls to talk to her
You have a sense of humor

Ok so you're a bit of an idiot too, but you're a brave, funny and interested. The good things make up for the bad ones, and hey, at lease you got to talk to her! (and if you get nervous it doesn't matter cause she knew that aready. She's probably nervous about talking to you too).

Hope that helps....a bit.

thnx.
i will try to do as u say .

**ibelledthecat** · 12-09-2003, 11:29 AM

today after school she ignored me . she is always with her friends . i cant even stare at her properly. it is very difficult to make friends with her ma8s .can u tell me what my next step should be . pls give me some ideas on how to approach her .