18 Yr Old And 14 Yr Old

[thisiswhoweare]

Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:15
shes been there for 3 years lol..
I thought it would be better if we wait, that way we will know if we still like eachother, and we will be both more mature.. But for some reason i second guess my decision. Especially when i see her

are you sure shes really into you and not just into the idea of going out with an older guy?

[Marius24]

Originally posted by thisiswhoweare+1 January 2004 - 03:27--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (thisiswhoweare @ 1 January 2004 - 03:27)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:15
shes been there for 3 years lol..
I thought it would be better if we wait, that way we will know if we still like eachother, and we will be both more mature.. But for some reason i second guess my decision. Especially when i see her

are you sure shes really into you and not just into older guys? [/b][/quote]
sounds like a teen crush

[asmithz]

It really depends on how her parents feel about it. I say if there ok with it, it&#39;s ok. It not that big of a differance (4yrs).

[Marius24]

Originally posted by Agent Smith@1 January 2004 - 03:31
It really depends on how her parents feel about it. I say if there ok with it, it&#39;s ok. It not that big of a differance (4yrs).

4 years isn&#39;t such a big deal - it&#39;s that she is 14 (her being too young) which is the problem

[thisiswhoweare]

yeah but if they ever wanna get physical, theyd have to wait a long time before they are in a legal situation. Heres where the main issues lie.

[Marius24]

he doesn&#39;t seem like a guy who would rush someone into that situation

[asmithz]

Originally posted by Marius24+31 December 2003 - 20:34--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Marius24 @ 31 December 2003 - 20:34)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Agent Smith@1 January 2004 - 03:31
It really depends on how her parents feel about it. I say if there ok with it, it&#39;s ok. It not that big of a differance (4yrs).

4 years isn&#39;t such a big deal - it&#39;s that she is 14 (her being too young) which is the problem [/b][/quote]
I know but i am saying if you think of it without the law situation. Then its only 4 years. It wouldn&#39;t matter if she were 4 years older. Its 4 years, and if you feel strongly about it that should not matter.

[J'Pol]

This is sick.

The Admin and Mods on this board should be ashamed of themselves for letting it go on.

I personally am ashamed of being a member of a forum which would allow this.

I joined this forum exactly one year ago today. I wish I had randomly chosen something else.

May God have mercy on your souls.

[internet.news]

Happy New Year JP



(OK - Maybe should have found somewhere better to say that)

[leafs116]

JP *ouch*

I dont really know, but I do think its more then a teen crush for her

And no I wouldnt rush her into anything physical...you can have love without the sex

I like for her, not her body or what I can do with her body.

One thing that has me not wanting to date her, is society... and the view that people have on things like this..ie JP

All I can say is, Thx everyone who replied. My decision is still a big Question, but I have gotten a good view of both sides.