18 Yr Old And 14 Yr Old

[leafs116]

Theres a gurl that lives a couple houses over from my house. Shes 14 but for some reason I really like her. I talk to her alot, becuase shes my friends sister. So, I know her pretty well.

I also know that she likes me too. And several times she has come on to me, and asked me out. Actually she tells me that she loves me, and that she will wait as long as she has to for me.

But I feel that theres no way i can do that. ..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..

But still the age difference, may cause questioning in society!

What is your opinion ??

[thisiswhoweare]

wait 4 yrs man. That would be what i would do.

[kurtsl0an]

she's 2 young - wait at least 3 or 4 years.

[junkyardking]

I smell smoke and where theres smoke theres Flames.

[ForbiddenDNA]

I think you should go for it..
14 and 18..only 4 years away..

That is not really far off..
When you're still young like this, it feels weird..

But around 25-30, the ages to get marry, ages that is 4 away off, wouldn't be a big deal..

I know a couple that the wife is 25, and the husband is 31, their relationship is going great.

So, I dont think 14 and 18 isnt a big problem..

But I want to warn you that, it's hard to hold a relationship..
90% that couples broke up..

[judgeofallandnothing]

u dont need to have sex u know.... lol u can just go out with her a few years till shes like 17 then its ok ahah

[ForbiddenDNA]

Originally posted by judgeofallandnothing@31 December 2003 - 18:58
u dont need to have sex u know.... lol u can just go out with her a few years till shes like 17 then its ok ahah

true true...respect that shes 14...

[Aaron_T]

whatever you do be careful you know wot 14yr olds are like for tellin their mates and if adults hear they could take it the wrong way

[leafs116]

Her mother likes me alot, and everytime i go over, they tease me about it.
But unfortunately her mother just passed away, and shes going to move in with her father, who doesnt know me

[the.gringo]

Originally posted by ForbiddenDNA@1 January 2004 - 02:58
I think you should go for it..
14 and 18..only 4 years away..

That is not really far off..
When you're still young like this, it feels weird..

But around 25-30, the ages to get marry, ages that is 4 away off, wouldn't be a big deal..

I know a couple that the wife is 25, and the husband is 31, their relationship is going great.

So, I dont think 14 and 18 isnt a big problem..

But I want to warn you that, it's hard to hold a relationship..
90% that couples broke up..

Yeah, then when shes 18 you will be 22 thats not that much of a difference but then I don't think that you can compare that with a 25 and 31 yr old because i think that there is more of a difference in maturity between an 18 yr old and a 22 yr old which is different between a 25 yr old and a 31 yr old unless what ur saying is that their situation was similar to leafs situation in the way that they had 6 years between them like when they began dating she was 18 and he was 24