Feeling Sorry For Yourself

[namzuf9]

Is this the official depression thread?
/me reaches for my bottle of JD's (outta beer ) :helpsmile:

[DanB]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:45
Sometimes there is

Very true and I wasn't making light of it

Just personally speaking it's not for me 99% of the time

[Skillian]

Probably won't be a very popular opinion but self pity is a rather unattractive trait - everyone gets a bit moody or depressed sometimes but whining about how hard one's life is overly self-indulgent - there are millions of people out there dealing with situations a hell of a lot worse.

[LovePotion nr. 9]

Originally posted by UKMan@6 January 2004 - 23:48
@LovePotion nr.9 - just wish i could live up to my own preaching sometimes

Peace
UKMan

Not many preachers do, these days.

But you preach from the hart.

Only source of true love.

Amen.

Lp9

[internet.news]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 22:45

@Sam......I'm just visiting your world

You're not welcome here Jonno (Damn - hope that was taken the right way)


anyway - bring a ball of string with you next time and we'll be able to find the way out

[JONNO_CELEBS]

@Skill............very very true, but they deal with theirs and we deal with ours, sometimes it helps to moan and winge

@Nam..........No dude it is'nt, it's a moan thread

Jonno B)

[namzuf9]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:54
@Nam..........No dude it is'nt, it's a moan thread

Jonno B)

Oh good. I'll just go get my missus!

[JONNO_CELEBS]

This made me laugh.....it's a conversation between me and Baz just now.....

B: Make us a cuppa please

J: Ok

I get milk and a beer from fridge.....

J: I'll have a couple more of these

B: Of what (turns round) .......Beer!

J: Yeah

B: Haha....I have a couple and I'm happy, you just keep drinking til you sleep

I thought that was quite funny

Jonno B)

[internet.news]

careful Jonno - you almost at Samsam - before you'll know it you'll be at Samsamsam




Edit: I can patent myself as a form of alcoholism can't I??

[Jackstermj]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 23:09
Why is it that sometimes people feel like total shit, they truely believe they are crap at everything and everyone is against them?
I really don't understand this at all.
They sit around with a miserable look on their face wishing for something that will more than likely never happen and mope about it.
They try to cheer themselfs up with some music and a drink and that may make them smile for a little while but then they hear a song that knocks them right back to the start.
So then there's the drink, does it help?, does it make them feel worse but they can't see it?

Is there an answer for this?

No not really, bugger

Jonno B)

A lot of people don't understand it, not even the ones who are going through the hard times, or the ones who are feeling so bloody miserable. It's because feeling as they do, they just don't see any good at the time.

We all have our low times and sometimes we cannot find the cause for them, we just have them..it's life, not everyone is happy all the time. You couldn't of gone through all your life feeling happy all the time We all have different reasons for feeling shit..sometimes there are people around us to help, at time there are not and maybe those times we reach for the bottle..I know I do it myself. Drink does help yes...at the time, because it just takes all the bad things away for that short time, it's like a reprieve...but its downside is, it just all comes flooding back the morning after, along with the headache.

We can only be happy with ourselves and try and deal with things best we can, no one is perfect..and we each deal with things differently, some better than others. All we can do is be there for people and hope we can help in some way

@ Skillian...Self Pity may look unattractive, but when you are feeling real shite and feel you have no reason to smile, then sometimes it's hard to actually think what others are going through in the world, because all you can think about is what's happening to yourself at the time..sad..but true!!