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    :helpsmile: i just dont know what to do. i am a confident attractive female, but the men in my life dont seem to notice. i have pined after this guy for 3 years, and it was till recently that he noticed me. i have no idea what to do. we've been on a few dates, and i've hinted at the fact that i am ready to go to the next (physical) level, but hejust doesnt seem to pick up on this. is it just me? arg! its been a few months since i've been laid, and i am ready, but apparently he's not. what can i do to speed things along? i think i might be in love with him as well, this wholething seems so surreal....if anyone can help, please let me know.....thanks.

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    Grab his and kiss it

    He will fall in love with you!

    Peace brotherdoobie

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    That guy seems as dumb as me , i find it difficult to read signals from girls too.

    I dont know what type of relationship you have, if its one where you can talk openly with each other or are you both inhibited?

    I have no problems expressing what i want to a girl , but would find it intimidating for a girl to be the same way with me.

    The option in my opinion is to ask him what kind of relationship he wants, does he see this relationship progressing further or not.
    Also tell him what you want from it and see were things lead from that.
    Robert00000

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    I hafta have an anvil fall on my head before I know that a girl wants me..this is purely a defensive reaction because most girls are natural flirts and got tired of getting mixed signals or overreaction to a flirty thing that didnt mean shit...


    am no intimidated by a girl telling me or being the aggressive one...HATE misunderstanding one's intentions..have had girls say.."HEY i just want sex..which was fine..and girls say..I want us to be serious..which was also fine...depending on the girl and my feelings of course..but bluntness cmay be scary or painful now..but it can save alot of heartache later..SO JUST TELL HIM!! dammit

    ED

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    Uhhhhh the only girl I've actually liked (and felt the same in return) wasn't so direct.

    However, men like things directly. So just let him know what you want and see what happens

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    hmmm....judging from this.....

    I hafta have an anvil fall on my head before I know that a girl wants me..
    i find it difficult to read signals from girls too.
    ....women can be just as confusing?
    I am just a worthless liar. I am just an imbecile.
    I will only complicate you. Trust in me and fall as well.
    I will find a center in you. I will chew it up and leave.
    I will work to elevate you just enough to bring you down.

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    so all you are saying is that if you are attractive, that he will fall inlove with you ??

    Maybe he just doesnt like your personality ?

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    Originally posted by Evil Gemini@19 January 2004 - 23:33
    so all you are saying is that if you are attractive, that he will fall inlove with you ??

    Maybe he just doesnt like your personality ?
    yeah maybe you fart in bed.

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    Originally posted by Evil Gemini@19 January 2004 - 16:33
    so all you are saying is that if you are attractive, that he will fall inlove with you ??

    Maybe he just doesnt like your personality ?
    Read this
    we've been on a few dates
    I don't think that would be the case

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    maybe he is a raving bum lover? have you ever thought of that>?

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