Let me put this a different way.
I don't like WMP, I don't think it is a particularly good or efficient product. But it is included as a "free" add-on (I also don't believe in a "Free Lunch").
By including this product with the OS, other products are less likely to be installed (whether free or not) by consumers, often simply because of their own ignorance and idleness.
Consequently the viability and success of these other companies is adversely affected, even though they may have superior products. If these companies are indirectly prevented from distributing their products by Microsoft's actions it is detrimental to the company.
So I am harmed because I am unable to get hold of a superior product because Microsoft's actions have driven the company producing it out of business, or that insufficient progress is being made because of reduced investment caused by loss of sales.
It doesn't matter a damn where the company is based or where you are based, anti-competitive actions are bad for ALL consumers.
I'll give you a practical example where this has actually happened.
Networking used to be sold as an add-on to Microsoft products. There were also dozens of alternative networking products which could be used instead, many of them better than Microsoft's offerings (for example fewer security holes). Then Microsoft started adding networking as part of the "standard package". The result is that most of the alternative networking products have disappeared. But Microsoft's offerings are still full of security holes.
This is an example of how YOU are being harmed by these practices.
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