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    An interesting question!
    Thankfully i was never part of a gang or being a bully, I had my own mind and i guess i was never that weak to become borg like.
    Be it in the real world or the cyber world gangs are active.
    To see your child come home from school crying,
    You ask what is wrong,
    only to find out that a sad gang of bullys have got it in for your child.
    But let's remember that a child bully that is allowed to grow up with this illness, will later on in life still be active, And yes sadly this bully will still have followers.
    The bully is a convincing, practised liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
    has a Jekyll and Hyde nature - is vile, vicious and vindictive in private, but innocent and charming in front of witnesses; no-one can (or wants to) believe this individual has a vindictive nature - only the current target of the bully's aggression sees both sides; whilst the Jekyll side is described as "charming" and convincing enough to deceive personnel, management and a tribunal, the Hyde side is frequently described as "evil"; Hyde is the real person, Jekyll is an act
    excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive
    uses excessive charm and is always plausible and convincing when peers, superiors or others are present (charm can be used to deceive as well as to cover for lack of empathy)
    is glib, shallow and superficial with plenty of fine words and lots of form - but there's no substance
    is possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will outmanoeuvre most people in verbal interaction, especially at times of conflict
    is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy, ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious, sycophantic
    relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon
    is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
    cannot be trusted or relied upon
    fails to fulfil commitments
    is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; whilst language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old
    is emotionally immature and emotionally untrustworthy
    exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions; underneath the charming exterior there are often suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual inadequacy, sexual violence or sexual abuse
    in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
    holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret
    is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
    has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her professed compassion
    is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably) about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity
    displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst simultaneously refusing to value, praise and acknowledge others, their achievements, or their existence
    shows a lack of joined-up thinking with conversation that doesn't flow and arguments that don't hold water
    flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you've never had a proper conversation
    refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
    is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
    undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask
    is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise collate incriminating information about them
    is quick to discredit and neutralise anyone who can talk knowledgeably about antisocial or sociopathic behaviours
    may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to held them accountable, perhaps using others' resources and contemptuous of the damage caused to other people and organisations in pursuance of the vendetta
    is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or might call the bully to account
    gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
    is highly manipulative, especially of people's perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
    poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their perceptions
    when called upon to share or address the needs and concerns of others, responds with impatience, irritability and aggression
    is arrogant, haughty, high-handed, and a know-all
    often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behaviour and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behaviour and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others
    is mean-spirited, officious, and often unbelievably petty
    is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
    is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
    is always a taker and never a giver
    is convinced of their superiority and has an overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership but cannot distinguish between leadership (maturity, decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust, integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness, aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
    often fraudulently claims qualifications, experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations which are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
    often misses the semantic meaning of language, misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly thinking that comments of a satirical, ironic or general negative nature apply to him or herself
    knows the words but not the song
    is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion and fabrication
    sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking activities or evasion of accountability and is often a committeeaholic or apparent workaholic.
    The idiosyncratic syntax of riddles interests me

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    Thats a big post.

    No, I was never a bully. I usually fight for the underdog infact, and I have very strong morals.

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    No!! Never!

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    My morals would beat your morals

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    Originally posted by danb@30 March 2004 - 13:47
    My morals would beat your morals
    I cant get into this argument due to the strength of my morals

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    Originally posted by RGX+30 March 2004 - 14:49--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (RGX @ 30 March 2004 - 14:49)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-danb@30 March 2004 - 13:47
    My morals would beat your morals&nbsp;
    I cant get into this argument due to the strength of my morals [/b][/quote]
    Such a good boy






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    I was bullied into reading all that

    In answer, I was bullied.......never a bully, not no more tho, you mess wiv me I&#39;ll put ya fecking lights out........and I don&#39;t mean at the switch

    Good Post Baz

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    Originally posted by CELEBS_ARE_US@30 March 2004 - 12:54
    An interesting question&#33;
    Thankfully i was never part of a gang or being a bully, I had my own mind and i guess i was never that weak to become borg like.
    Be it in the real world or the cyber world gangs are active.
    To see your child come home from school crying,
    You ask what is wrong,
    only to find out that a sad gang of bullys have got it in for your child.
    But let&#39;s remember that a child bully that is allowed to grow up with this illness, will later on in life still be active, And yes sadly this bully will still have followers.
    The bully is a convincing, practised liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
    has a Jekyll and Hyde nature - is vile, vicious and vindictive in private, but innocent and charming in front of witnesses; no-one can (or wants to) believe this individual has a vindictive nature - only the current target of the bully&#39;s aggression sees both sides; whilst the Jekyll side is described as "charming" and convincing enough to deceive personnel, management and a tribunal, the Hyde side is frequently described as "evil"; Hyde is the real person, Jekyll is an act
    excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive
    uses excessive charm and is always plausible and convincing when peers, superiors or others are present (charm can be used to deceive as well as to cover for lack of empathy)
    is glib, shallow and superficial with plenty of fine words and lots of form - but there&#39;s no substance
    is possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will outmanoeuvre most people in verbal interaction, especially at times of conflict
    is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy, ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious, sycophantic
    relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon
    is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
    cannot be trusted or relied upon
    fails to fulfil commitments
    is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; whilst language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old
    is emotionally immature and emotionally untrustworthy
    exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions; underneath the charming exterior there are often suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual inadequacy, sexual violence or sexual abuse
    in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
    holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret
    is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
    has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her professed compassion
    is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably) about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity
    displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst simultaneously refusing to value, praise and acknowledge others, their achievements, or their existence
    shows a lack of joined-up thinking with conversation that doesn&#39;t flow and arguments that don&#39;t hold water
    flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you&#39;ve never had a proper conversation
    refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
    is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
    undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully&#39;s mask
    is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise collate incriminating information about them
    is quick to discredit and neutralise anyone who can talk knowledgeably about antisocial or sociopathic behaviours
    may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to held them accountable, perhaps using others&#39; resources and contemptuous of the damage caused to other people and organisations in pursuance of the vendetta
    is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or might call the bully to account
    gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
    is highly manipulative, especially of people&#39;s perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
    poisons peoples&#39; minds by manipulating their perceptions
    when called upon to share or address the needs and concerns of others, responds with impatience, irritability and aggression
    is arrogant, haughty, high-handed, and a know-all
    often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behaviour and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behaviour and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others
    is mean-spirited, officious, and often unbelievably petty
    is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
    is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
    is always a taker and never a giver
    is convinced of their superiority and has an overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership but cannot distinguish between leadership (maturity, decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust, integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness, aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
    often fraudulently claims qualifications, experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations which are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
    often misses the semantic meaning of language, misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly thinking that comments of a satirical, ironic or general negative nature apply to him or herself
    knows the words but not the song
    is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion and fabrication
    sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking activities or evasion of accountability and is often a committeeaholic or apparent workaholic.
    You were bullied right ??

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    i was bullied in junior school until i turned round and smacked em both. then had to stand at the wall

    at high chool i was in this gan but there was this kid who every one used to bully. depending what mood iwas in i&#39;d hang back or stick up for him and get called names. there is one thing im guilty of though in year 11 we made an army of yar 7s and sennt them out to arrest him and locked him up. ean i know but it was fun
    A good game is still good if its late, a bad game is bad forever, Shigeru Miyamoto

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    Originally posted by CELEBS_ARE_US@30 March 2004 - 12:54
    An interesting question&#33;
    Thankfully i was never part of a gang or being a bully, I had my own mind and i guess i was never that weak to become borg like.
    Be it in the real world or the cyber world gangs are active.
    To see your child come home from school crying,
    You ask what is wrong,
    only to find out that a sad gang of bullys have got it in for your child.
    But let&#39;s remember that a child bully that is allowed to grow up with this illness, will later on in life still be active, And yes sadly this bully will still have followers.
    The bully is a convincing, practised liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
    has a Jekyll and Hyde nature - is vile, vicious and vindictive in private, but innocent and charming in front of witnesses; no-one can (or wants to) believe this individual has a vindictive nature - only the current target of the bully&#39;s aggression sees both sides; whilst the Jekyll side is described as "charming" and convincing enough to deceive personnel, management and a tribunal, the Hyde side is frequently described as "evil"; Hyde is the real person, Jekyll is an act
    excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive
    uses excessive charm and is always plausible and convincing when peers, superiors or others are present (charm can be used to deceive as well as to cover for lack of empathy)
    is glib, shallow and superficial with plenty of fine words and lots of form - but there&#39;s no substance
    is possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will outmanoeuvre most people in verbal interaction, especially at times of conflict
    is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy, ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious, sycophantic
    relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon
    is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
    cannot be trusted or relied upon
    fails to fulfil commitments
    is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; whilst language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old
    is emotionally immature and emotionally untrustworthy
    exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions; underneath the charming exterior there are often suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual inadequacy, sexual violence or sexual abuse
    in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
    holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret
    is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
    has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her professed compassion
    is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably) about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity
    displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst simultaneously refusing to value, praise and acknowledge others, their achievements, or their existence
    shows a lack of joined-up thinking with conversation that doesn&#39;t flow and arguments that don&#39;t hold water
    flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you&#39;ve never had a proper conversation
    refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
    is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
    undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully&#39;s mask
    is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise collate incriminating information about them
    is quick to discredit and neutralise anyone who can talk knowledgeably about antisocial or sociopathic behaviours
    may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to held them accountable, perhaps using others&#39; resources and contemptuous of the damage caused to other people and organisations in pursuance of the vendetta
    is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or might call the bully to account
    gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
    is highly manipulative, especially of people&#39;s perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
    poisons peoples&#39; minds by manipulating their perceptions
    when called upon to share or address the needs and concerns of others, responds with impatience, irritability and aggression
    is arrogant, haughty, high-handed, and a know-all
    often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behaviour and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behaviour and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others
    is mean-spirited, officious, and often unbelievably petty
    is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
    is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
    is always a taker and never a giver
    is convinced of their superiority and has an overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership but cannot distinguish between leadership (maturity, decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust, integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness, aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
    often fraudulently claims qualifications, experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations which are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
    often misses the semantic meaning of language, misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly thinking that comments of a satirical, ironic or general negative nature apply to him or herself
    knows the words but not the song
    is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion and fabrication
    sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking activities or evasion of accountability and is often a committeeaholic or apparent workaholic.
    How&#39;d you know me so well?

    In answer, I was bullied.......never a bully, not no more tho, you mess wiv me I&#39;ll put ya fecking lights out........and I don&#39;t mean at the switch
    yet don&#39;t touch Jonno hes rock solid, trust me, sam will tell ya&#33;

    Not trying to start a fight again


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