Rip,
You guys are the ones who need to relax, that is the point.
Whatever the situation, you need to stop knee-jerking responses.
If someone crosses the line, put them on moderation, let them know this via PM and let things settle.
Sometimes when people get wound up they can spiral out of control. One post or one day, does not the poster make. Mods need to be the leaders and administer a "time out", and let the that person chill out.
Straight out bans without due process demonstrate to me that children should not be Mods.
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