someone please tell me Im an arse?

[Virtualbody1234]

He says if I was his, he wouldn't mess me about.
But he has had so many opportunities to be with me.
Just can't take anymore of his lies.

Why do you even listen to him about not messing with you? You already know he lies.

[Busyman]

Ok, here goes...

I've been kinda with a bloke for a long, long time.
When we started seeing each other, we both had partners.
He told me if I dumped my b/f of the time, he would give up everything
for me.
I was told he loved me, and he wanted to look after me forever.
Well, I have been single now for over 5 months, and he has made
no effort to leave his g/f, although he has lied to me a few times and said he did.
To add insult, he is constantly offering me money, which I refuse to accept.

Last week, I said I wasn't gonna be screwed around anymore,
he burst into tears saying he was sorry he was hurting me, and all that crap.
The thing is, when he is upset he call's on me, but if I need him, he is always unreachable.
Nothing has changed, except Im older and a lil wiser.

He used to write me poetry, and leave little presents on my pillow.
Now, he just comes round to...ahem...
And thats only once a week, at the most.


I know I'm just being strung along and used, but can someone confirm it for me?
That way, I won't feel so bad if I manage to pull tomorrow night.
It's all got to the point, where I am thinking of moving away from everyone I love,
to get my head straight.

What do I doooo? :crying:

This is easy....

First, go out with other guys. Don't hold out for this guy at all.

Second, use the current guy for what he gives you. Take the money if he wants you to have it. Enjoy his company while he's with you but....detach yourself from anything further. Look at him as a fuck and money (crass I know).

Third, don't ask him for anything; not money, not sex, not anything. If asks you for something only do it if it is convenient for you. Don't push anything aside for him. If you have a date kindly tell him, "No, I can't do that tonight."

Either he will come begging you or not, in which in either case, you could give a shit.

Meanwhile you can benefit. You are not being an ass for being this way. If you meet a nice guy then treat him nice, otherwise what the fuck are you supposed to do.....wallow and sulk like a typical I'm so hurt woman. :crying:

Get lilmiss up and do for lilmiss.

edit: ...oh and in following your instructions.."You're an arse!!!"

[Rick Phlegm]

Guys like that make me sick.

Drop the little puke.

[Lilmiss]

don't ask him for anything; not money, not sex, not anything.

I don't.
The only thing I have ever asked for was his company.
He was really off with me last week, cause I just wanted a hug, and he wanted more. Told me he would be back to see me the next day, and guess what? Im still waiting. I already know what he will use as an excuse; "I thought you were in a mood with me, so I left you alone for a while."

His g/f knows what he is upto, and apparently he has called her by my name a few times. But she screams and hits him, I refuse to show him how much he riles me up, so maybe thats where Im going wrong.

I know Im being a silly arse, but sometimes you just need people to remind you. :crying:

[Busyman]

I don't.
The only thing I have ever asked for was his company.
He was really off with me last week, cause I just wanted a hug, and he wanted more. Told me he would be back to see me the next day, and guess what? Im still waiting. I already know what he will use as an excuse; "I thought you were in a mood with me, so I left you alone for a while."

His g/f knows what he is upto, and apparently he has called her by my name a few times. But she screams and hits him, I refuse to show him how much he riles me up, so maybe thats where Im going wrong.

I know Im being a silly arse, but sometimes you just need people to remind you. :crying:

Why ask for the hug?

Why worry about whether he comes over the next day?

Why ask why he didn't come over?

[Lilmiss]

Cause I have feelings for the twat.

[Rat Faced]

Lilmiss, your an Arse...

Now that the request is out the way, Bo was telling us you had a cute arse anyway

[Lilmiss]

Bo was telling us you had a cute arse anyway

Wha?



Cute in a giant way.

[Robert00000]

Ok, here goes...

I've been kinda with a bloke for a long, long time.
When we started seeing each other, we both had partners.
He told me if I dumped my b/f of the time, he would give up everything
for me.
I was told he loved me, and he wanted to look after me forever.
Well, I have been single now for over 5 months, and he has made
no effort to leave his g/f, although he has lied to me a few times and said he did.
To add insult, he is constantly offering me money, which I refuse to accept.

Last week, I said I wasn't gonna be screwed around anymore,
he burst into tears saying he was sorry he was hurting me, and all that crap.
The thing is, when he is upset he call's on me, but if I need him, he is always unreachable.
Nothing has changed, except Im older and a lil wiser.

He used to write me poetry, and leave little presents on my pillow.
Now, he just comes round to...ahem...
And thats only once a week, at the most.


I know I'm just being strung along and used, but can someone confirm it for me?
That way, I won't feel so bad if I manage to pull tomorrow night.
It's all got to the point, where I am thinking of moving away from everyone I love,
to get my head straight.

What do I doooo? :crying:

The gullibility of women never fail to amaze me. I know from experience that a lot of girls want to believe in something that isnt there. I've had friends who would tell girls they wanted relationships with them but i knew all along that wasnt their true intention.

I'm no saint but even i wouldnt stoop as low as to keep a girl stringing on like this (but a few of my friends are ).

You can do better Lilmiss, just move on and find someone sincere. I'll put you on the waiting list

[Jon L. Obscene]

Erm......You like your nuts being kicked Robert?

Jonno