What is the f*cking point?

[bujub22]

ive seen nikkid

but yeah i hate that shit too but the 1 thing i hate more is when they know they should stay away from them or break up with them and they go right back in the same situation or worse cuz fo w/e reason

[fkdup74]

you want I should take a road trip up there and break his legs Nik?
just gimme a time when you & the kids are gone....
ok, so...that won't solve anything...but it could be fun

nah, but seriously....
I wish I could offer some kind of condolence or advice,
as I hate seeing good people go through bad times,
but I suck with words most times, and I really suck at relationships
to me it doesnt seem he is deserving of such commitment from you
hard for me to say anything beyond that
I cant even think of someting stupid or corny enough to make you laugh,
that always seemed to help me through troubled times,
simple laughter, something to smile about, more often than not sets my mind at ease
I wish I could at least give you that

so...can I at least break his legs?

[JPaul]

You know what you need to do.

You know when you need to do it.

You know you have people who are on your side.

Good luck and God bless.

[Snee]

Dump the dude.

Good luck.

[Adster]

I woke up the other day last week I tryed to drink myself to death and slept in a park. (yes im a depressed looser) but then someone hit me and I thought to myself as bad as this shit hole life and world is Im here and there is nothing this world and life can do about it!!! so you do what you can only do and you know whats right

MY advice of life is

Don;'t do anything you don't want too do

but when it comes down too it advice is nothing its your descion that matters and only you know the correct one and if it makes you happy me and of course everyone else here is happy

of cause I know some of the feelings you have I don't have kids and am younger then you

You have heard me say many times how I feel about this sort of thing I am still in a vien of never trusting a woman again in life.



I was 5 feet from teh edge about to fall think im off that edge now

it is hard to turn away from someone you onced loved (or still do) coz you will always remember the good times and think of it and thats where the problem lies

take care nikki I know you will

[brenda]

I haven't read the whole thread so apologies if I'm repeating someone elses thoughts.

I would imagine that when one of your babies puts their arms around you and says "i love you mummy"......... you know what the point is.

Hardship is difficult to endure...... hence its called hardship

Things can turn around quickly Nikki, you are young, you possess certain talents and you have always sounded like a survivor to me. Sorry to hear that you've been having it rough lately but I'm sure that it won't take you long to get back on track