The group that I trained with can be found here
Thats as real as "pro" wrestling gets.
As for true shoot (UFC, Tudo Vale etc.) I see as much as I can live (very rare over here as you know) but I have a good collection of vids and the Gracie family (real wrestlers) are the gods of the octogon!
But for entertainment for the common man they just dont cut it.
Thats where "pro" wrestling stands out. As someone mentioned before its a soap opera but its one for violence fans.