Swingers

**Skweeky** · 03-15-2007, 07:22 PM

How's about he bloody asks her what she is up to and why she feels the need to screw around?

**Hairbautt** · 03-15-2007, 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by Skweeky

How's about he bloody asks her what she is up to and why she feels the need to screw around?

The #1 key to a successful relationship: Communication.

**Skweeky** · 03-15-2007, 07:30 PM

My point exactly.

Look at it like this:

She's JUST shagging, because she's on a swingers website so it's clearly just about the sex. It's not like she loves some other guy

What is he trying to accomplish by getting proof?
If he is sure of it and aks her about it, she will either admit it and then they can work on it or split up.
If she doesn't admit to it, he knows she is lying and in that case, what the use of saving the relationship?

All this sneaking around stuff is disgusting. It just shows that in the end, all HE is interested in, is hurting her back, possibly get evidence so he can take all the money and run and have one back on her.

It's sickening

**100%** · 03-15-2007, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by Hairbautt

The #1 key to a successful relationship: Communication.

Not as easy as it is said.

**Skweeky** · 03-15-2007, 08:09 PM

Yes it is.

Something bothers you, speak about it.
If your partner is bothered about something, let him or her speak about it.

It's not complicated. Just takes some guts and compassion.

**100%** · 03-15-2007, 08:16 PM

.
Not as easy as it is said.

**Hairbautt** · 03-15-2007, 08:42 PM

For you...

**Skweeky** · 03-15-2007, 10:32 PM

I really don't see what is hard about it?

You have to be able to live with the fact that some things you'll say and do in your lifetime will be hurtfull, and some things said and done to you will be hurtfull as well.

If you let a relationship slip so far that you can't be honest with each other anymore, you may as well just get out