My ex-father-in-law was dying of cancer in the hospital.
The doctors approached me with (what has become) the standard question having to do with "heroic measures" in order to keep him alive.
At this point he had suffered 2 post-op strokes and could only communicate by squeezing my hand.
I asked him-he signaled to me that, no, he didn't want any heroic measures.
It took me two hours to overcome my own reluctance and tell the doctors.
Left to my own devices, I cannot honestly say, in a hard and fast way, just what I would do.
Bookmarks