Long live Hissyfit
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Congrats Z! Your life is about to change...are you ready for it? I wasn't, but
I instantaneously adapted . (evolutionous fatherhoodus)
I believe you will be brillant as a father. Your imagination will be a wonderful asset.
Your about to be a Papa!...Smile
Peace bd
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Congrats dude, happy for you
Jonno
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Congratulations to you and your partner.
Good Luck too, tricky little blighters kids
Cogito cogito ergo cogito sum
Long live Hissyfit
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Quite often, they are downright beast...Originally Posted by Biggles
Congratulations to you and your partner.
Good Luck too, tricky little blighters kids
Peace bd
Last edited by brotherdoobie; 01-01-2005 at 11:34 PM.
Oh bugger
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I have to agree with BD, they can be beastly buggers.... but.... wouldn't have em any other way.
Least you can get lotsa useful tips on here, really wish I'd had that
On the marriage thing, I dunno that it's so important. I think the important thing is what you and your partner want. Personally I'm not big on marriage, seen too many divorces. I was with my ex for 12 years (longer than plenty of marriages) and when we split it was very easy and amicable. No lawyers or legal stuff to mess with.
PS Hiya BD
Last edited by *goddess*; 01-02-2005 at 06:28 AM.
effendi
Nice one, Zed. Congratulations
This year saw the birth of my first child and I have to admit nothing prepared me for the love you feel for the ickle thing. It truly is wonderful. As to tips, I'm probably a bit inexperienced to give advice but I find the actual parenting easy - I guess the tricky stuff comes when they can answer back.
The difficult part for me is the relationship with my girlfriend because it totally changed. The focus of your life will obviously alter drastically but neither of us were prepared for that, stupid as it sounds. Added to that are all the hormones buzzing about. It is difficult. I would say that you'll both need to be totally open and honest about your feelings for things to go smoothly. Maybe I wasn't so, initially.
As to getting married, unless you're religeous there is no point. You've already made the biggest possible commitment to each other by planning a baby. What difference will a piece of paper make.
I plan on beating him to death with his kids. I'll use them as a bludgeon on his face. -
--Good for them if they survive.
Super Undulator
Great news, Zeddy!!
Hereby i forgive you your negligence towards me............
And don't listen to J2K2; don't marry!!!
If you are happy without it, why would you.
A kid needs loving parents, that small paper only complicates things.
Stay who you are and the toddler will have great parents.
Congrats again.
Yogi
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Beside, marriage is legalized rape anyhow.
Last edited by Barky; 01-04-2005 at 06:31 PM.
Lagomorph
Kids are great, but only if you can give them back to their parents.
The longest 30 minutes I ever spent was with my friends 1 year old daughter, Her attention span was 15 seconds.
Get your sleep, you'll need it.
Aren't we in the trust tree, thingey?
Long live Hissyfit
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I take it you have never been married.Beside, marriage is legalized rape anyhow.
Peace bd
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I have to agree with BD, they can be beastly buggers.... but.... wouldn't have em any other way.
Least you can get lotsa useful tips on here, really wish I'd had that 
On the marriage thing, I dunno that it's so important. I think the important thing is what you and your partner want. Personally I'm not big on marriage, seen too many divorces. I was with my ex for 12 years (longer than plenty of marriages) and when we split it was very easy and amicable. No lawyers or legal stuff to mess with.
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