I kind of meant I'd crushed the desire to fornicate out of him....I hate it when an attempt at self deprecation ends up making you look like a giant smug twat.
Anyway....it's definitely a mutual decision, and if memory serves it was me that suggested it. He never would for fear of getting into trouble again for something he doesn't understand he did wrong :P. He does nice thoughtful things for me all the time....like remembering to put a beer in the fridge for me for when I get home from work, or keeping the fridge stocked with chocolate, or making me breakfast in bed at the weekend. Who needs Valentine's Day?
*Smug moment*