It wasn't a relationship advice. Also, I was never truly in love, so I don't know why you used the word "lovelorn". But one thing you are certainly right about - I am definitely a loser.
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It wasn't a relationship advice. Also, I was never truly in love, so I don't know why you used the word "lovelorn". But one thing you are certainly right about - I am definitely a loser.
Here's some music for you to feel more comfortable in your skin
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ut5A_r5iiOg
The answer to the original post was so obvious Rings, I don't know why it couldn't be seen so far. Set your gf's roommate up with Oleg for the sex!!!
---Fixing FST's sexual problems since August 2011
Oleg: She's 24. And again, age is irrelevant. I can talk about a 17 year old supporting a family of 7 that I am well acquainted with. How many 30/40 year olds can do that on their own? Again, if age seems to come up in your thoughts when judging someone's behavior, then you're the one with the age-related problem.
My brother who is younger than me by 9 years tonight proved that when he came to the same conclusion I did about this entire fiasco.
Artemis: I wish I could, but last time I followed Oleg's advice I was detained overnight at my local police station. Who'da thunk it. Also got banned from an IMAX theatre because they told me to stay away from the intercoms and teletext relays. (I'm hoping the reference is not lost on people).
mjmacky: A new problem has arisen. The roommate asked me for private time with her a couple of nights ago. It was hilarious saying "No." to her panicky voice every time she asked a question. I'm too afraid to recommend OlegL thinking she might give him sex just to spite at me, in which case Oleg's unrequited love issues are still left unresolved. Sex should be like being on disability funds without having the requisite disability. All of the gain and none of the pity.
Well, in high school, people often didn't treat me nicely, but the same people who used to hurt my feelings in the past treat me well nowadays, so maybe this change in their behavior happened because they got older.
You are right if you think I would feel hurt in such a situation.Quote:
Originally Posted by Darth Rings
If you are implying that I am just ripping the system off and don't have an actual disability, I don't know what to tell you. I have anxiety and social problems; I have actual diagnoses, but I can't really say whether I am truly disabled or not. I just don't know yet.Quote:
Originally Posted by Darth Rings
@ Darth ... I went trough the whole thread and somehow ignored all them posts that were off topic and I have some questions.
1. You say she is your friend? But is she also your girfriends friend? As I understood they are roommates or sharing a house/rooms/an appartment somehow.
2. You told us you sent your friend a text, but what exactly did you wrote to her? As I understood it would have been something that could wreck your relationship, if it weren't for the fact your girlfriend knew what you did and agreed with it. But from what I understand your text was some kind of a provocation to see how she would react, right?
If the answer to those 2 questions are 'Yes', than the only thing you can say is that she is a loyal friend of your girlfriend and maybe wanted to spare here the pain of being 'betrayed' by here boyfriend (you, the sender of the text).
There is one girlfriend and two friends. One of the friends is the roommate of my girlfriend. The second friend was the recipient of the text message. The roommate friend stole/nicked his phone behind his back, and went through my entire conversation history with him over texts, and found one damning message. She then proceeded to back-up all the text messages, and showed them to my girlfriend.
Even if she were looking out for my girlfriend/her good roomy, then there was no reason to go about it the way she did. In fact, the way she acted out almost makes me feel like she was looking for something that I'd hide from both her/my girlfriend, that could be used against me.
I thought to myself about the possibility you spoke about, then there is no reason she did not confront me with the dilemma first. A little "Hi, saw this and thought I'd get an explanation from you so I know the entire context before I talk to your girlfriend about it - a little chance to defend yourself, if you will, because this seems bad." The fact that she took the text without my or the text recipient's permission to read our entire conversational history, then ran off with it to my girlfriend just screams malcontent.
Anyway, if you were making this post in order to ensure I wouldn't do anything stupid, then rest assured, my nerves are firmly back where they should be and I'm ignoring it all. Whether her intentions were good or not, I'm done with the situation and won't even initiate contact with her again.
EDIT: Thank you, though. :yes:
Correct, and it's fun doing it. :yes:
And by the way, OP, I mentioned that maturity often comes with age, and this may be true especially in your case, because I highly doubt that you would have made this post if you were in your late 20s or early 30s: http://filesharingtalk.com/threads/4...=1#post3554824 . I am sorry that I keep mentioning it, but that post was really weird. Then you made another silly post: http://filesharingtalk.com/threads/4...=1#post3559631 . I am still pretty much puzzled by the fact that you actually made those types of posts. I really hope you understand now what I meant when I said that you were sometimes behaving like an adolescent. Please don't be offended by what I just told you.
So is there a point that you might give up on trolling? What exactly is the history that has you so fixated on him Oleg? Sometimes I wished I jumped on and participated sooner, this board has been around for awhile circumventing all the internet buttfucking I've had to experience.
Never mind.
you spasmic
Anyway, OP, you have to really forgive me for being persistent, but I just love it when I understand people, so I really would love to understand you. Forgive me for being off-topic, but how often do you call someone that you barely know a sociopath (in real life or on the internet)? It seems to me that you weren't just trolling when you wrote that bizarre post; it seems that you were actually serious. (Well, I also did weird things, as you know. I asked women that I just met for sex. So, that was, of course, a really weird thing to do, but I just couldn't help myself. You probably never did something as weird as that). But I want to understand you. I would like to get to know you more. So, what makes you think I have no conscience? What makes you think I am either a sociopath or psychopath?
Also, OP, is English your native language? I showed this post ( http://filesharingtalk.com/threads/4...=1#post3554824 ) to someone whose native language is English and after he read it, he said it wasn't your native tongue. Well, I don't know if he's right 'cause English is not my native language either, but what's your native language?
Canadian. :mellow:
Now, ringhunter has real issue to deal with.:P
I know that in Canada, they speak English and French... But that fellow that I spoke to did say about the OP, "English is not his native language." So, please, OP, tell me if that fellow was right or wrong.
Edit: and megabyteme, you were born in the States and English is probably your first language. So, do you think ringhunter speaks English the way native speakers do?
I think you speak perfect mong. Congrats!
Oh man, it's hard to have a conversation with you.
English is not my native language.True fact too.
OP, is English your first language? Answer the question please! After you answer it, you will still need to tell me why you said some dumb things.
Also, you seem to be fluent in Douche, Oleg. Tell me, are you a native of Doucheville? Is that a neighborhood in New York?
*EDIT* BTW, no one has to answer you. In fact, doing so would indicate that the responder has some belief that you are real. Most are not ready to commit to having you as an imaginary friend, Oleg.
I only respond to make the voices in my head stop facepalming. True story.
Its not only size 6,its BOLD too.
I heard Oleg's inner power is over 9000
I leave that to the autistic kids.
Also, Oleg: Fortunately for you, I opened one of your posts, and read a tonality indicating that you are frustrated at my ignoring you. Let me remind you, perchance that it has slipped your mind, that you are still on my ignore list.
Yes, I am frustrated. You shouldn't ignore me.
Darth a card of sympathy:
http://i.imgur.com/71o5q.png
Well, I have a great difficulty understanding people and have a great difficulty understanding Darth Rings; that's why I keep asking him the same questions. But it looks like he won't answer them, so I need to stop asking them...
My humble advice, and probably not what you want to hear is let it go.
Spiritually this girl will have to answer for her sins and the situation, you have no need to damage your karma and energy field by following and exacting revenge for what she did.
I am a newb here, so you can use or abuse me for my advice - but its given honestly and with the best of intent.
dadude
Good decision,Oleg.
While I don't agree with the concept of spirituality, I will agree with your opinion of letting nature take its course.
Also, just a little thing to note, throwing your opinion out there, when you feel it is warranted, is not wrong. Caring about how the other end receives it is. Speak your mind without worrying about being reprimanded by some idiot who thinks he/she needs to stomp over anyone who is not themselves.
Welcome to the forum. :)
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