Home wrecker advice.

**OlegL** · 07-05-2011, 04:54 AM

It wasn't a relationship advice. Also, I was never truly in love, so I don't know why you used the word "lovelorn". But one thing you are certainly right about - I am definitely a loser.

**Artemis** · 07-05-2011, 06:07 AM

Originally Posted by OlegL

It wasn't a relationship advice. Also, I was never truly in love, so I don't know why you used the word "lovelorn". But one thing you are certainly right about - I am definitely a loser.

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**Squeamous** · 07-05-2011, 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by OlegL

It wasn't a relationship advice. Also, I was never truly in love, so I don't know why you used the word "lovelorn". But one thing you are certainly right about - I am definitely a loser.

**mjmacky** · 07-05-2011, 08:53 PM

The answer to the original post was so obvious Rings, I don't know why it couldn't be seen so far. Set your gf's roommate up with Oleg for the sex!!!

---Fixing FST's sexual problems since August 2011

**Quarterquack** · 07-06-2011, 03:45 AM

Oleg: She's 24. And again, age is irrelevant. I can talk about a 17 year old supporting a family of 7 that I am well acquainted with. How many 30/40 year olds can do that on their own? Again, if age seems to come up in your thoughts when judging someone's behavior, then you're the one with the age-related problem.

My brother who is younger than me by 9 years tonight proved that when he came to the same conclusion I did about this entire fiasco.

Artemis: I wish I could, but last time I followed Oleg's advice I was detained overnight at my local police station. Who'da thunk it. Also got banned from an IMAX theatre because they told me to stay away from the intercoms and teletext relays. (I'm hoping the reference is not lost on people).

mjmacky: A new problem has arisen. The roommate asked me for private time with her a couple of nights ago. It was hilarious saying "No." to her panicky voice every time she asked a question. I'm too afraid to recommend OlegL thinking she might give him sex just to spite at me, in which case Oleg's unrequited love issues are still left unresolved. Sex should be like being on disability funds without having the requisite disability. All of the gain and none of the pity.

**Disme** · 07-06-2011, 06:08 AM

Originally Posted by Darth Rings

Oleg: She's 24. And again, age is irrelevant. I can talk about a 17 year old supporting a family of 7 that I am well acquainted with.

Fiona? Hahaha ... scatter!

**OlegL** · 07-06-2011, 06:20 AM

Originally Posted by Darth Rings

Oleg: She's 24. And again, age is irrelevant. I can talk about a 17 year old supporting a family of 7 that I am well acquainted with. How many 30/40 year olds can do that on their own? Again, if age seems to come up in your thoughts when judging someone's behavior, then you're the one with the age-related problem.

Well, in high school, people often didn't treat me nicely, but the same people who used to hurt my feelings in the past treat me well nowadays, so maybe this change in their behavior happened because they got older.

Originally Posted by Darth Rings

I'm too afraid to recommend OlegL thinking she might give him sex just to spite at me, in which case Oleg's unrequited love issues are still left unresolved.

You are right if you think I would feel hurt in such a situation.

Originally Posted by Darth Rings

Sex should be like being on disability funds without having the requisite disability.

If you are implying that I am just ripping the system off and don't have an actual disability, I don't know what to tell you. I have anxiety and social problems; I have actual diagnoses, but I can't really say whether I am truly disabled or not. I just don't know yet.

**Disme** · 07-06-2011, 08:19 AM

@ Darth ... I went trough the whole thread and somehow ignored all them posts that were off topic and I have some questions.

1. You say she is your friend? But is she also your girfriends friend? As I understood they are roommates or sharing a house/rooms/an appartment somehow.

2. You told us you sent your friend a text, but what exactly did you wrote to her? As I understood it would have been something that could wreck your relationship, if it weren't for the fact your girlfriend knew what you did and agreed with it. But from what I understand your text was some kind of a provocation to see how she would react, right?

If the answer to those 2 questions are 'Yes', than the only thing you can say is that she is a loyal friend of your girlfriend and maybe wanted to spare here the pain of being 'betrayed' by here boyfriend (you, the sender of the text).

**Quarterquack** · 07-06-2011, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by Disme

@ Darth ... I went trough the whole thread and somehow ignored all them posts that were off topic and I have some questions.

1. You say she is your friend? But is she also your girfriends friend? As I understood they are roommates or sharing a house/rooms/an appartment somehow.

2. You told us you sent your friend a text, but what exactly did you wrote to her? As I understood it would have been something that could wreck your relationship, if it weren't for the fact your girlfriend knew what you did and agreed with it. But from what I understand your text was some kind of a provocation to see how she would react, right?

If the answer to those 2 questions are 'Yes', than the only thing you can say is that she is a loyal friend of your girlfriend and maybe wanted to spare here the pain of being 'betrayed' by here boyfriend (you, the sender of the text).

There is one girlfriend and two friends. One of the friends is the roommate of my girlfriend. The second friend was the recipient of the text message. The roommate friend stole/nicked his phone behind his back, and went through my entire conversation history with him over texts, and found one damning message. She then proceeded to back-up all the text messages, and showed them to my girlfriend.

Even if she were looking out for my girlfriend/her good roomy, then there was no reason to go about it the way she did. In fact, the way she acted out almost makes me feel like she was looking for something that I'd hide from both her/my girlfriend, that could be used against me.

I thought to myself about the possibility you spoke about, then there is no reason she did not confront me with the dilemma first. A little "Hi, saw this and thought I'd get an explanation from you so I know the entire context before I talk to your girlfriend about it - a little chance to defend yourself, if you will, because this seems bad." The fact that she took the text without my or the text recipient's permission to read our entire conversational history, then ran off with it to my girlfriend just screams malcontent.

Anyway, if you were making this post in order to ensure I wouldn't do anything stupid, then rest assured, my nerves are firmly back where they should be and I'm ignoring it all. Whether her intentions were good or not, I'm done with the situation and won't even initiate contact with her again.

EDIT: Thank you, though.